okay i am 16 and my boy friend is 17 and latley all he wants to do is have sex never just talk or kiss ect. it is always can we have sex and no we are not virgins we have had sex together any way why is it that he always wants to have sex also how can i tell him i dont want to ? Please Help Me
2006-08-12 03:28:54 · 27 answers · asked by Frank Iero from MCR is HOT!! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
this has only been happening for like the last month and we have been dating for 3 years
2006-08-12 03:33:02 · update #1
i dont want to dump him cuz i know how it feels cuz like not long before me and him started dating i got dumped ao i dont want ot hurt him like that
2006-08-12 03:38:50 · update #2
Please Help I dont Know What To Do
2006-08-12 03:47:11 · update #3
I still Need help
2006-08-12 04:10:40 · update #4
sound it doesn't mean that he's not love u .but his problem is sex addiction so dont leave him if u did 3 years with him just explain that sex after sex isn't good . so it's addiction
2006-08-12 03:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A life together is not about sex all of the time. Talk to your boyfriend, tell him that you want to go do things together, then maybe later if you are both in the mood, sex would be fine, but explain that you are not always in the mood. Intimacy is not the same for woman, girls need the emotional stuff while guys are happy with instant gratification. Tell him you require more than just sex, and if he is unwilling to compromise get rid of him.
2006-08-12 10:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend wants to have sex all the time because he is 17 and his hormones are off the charts. As for telling him no, easy, no means no. If he gets mad that's his problem and you may want to reexamine your relationship. Is he there for you or is there because you have sex with him? Being 16 and sexually active is really hard. Maybe you should just take a break for a while.
2006-08-12 10:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by D M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to physical attraction, infatuation, a crush and love than sex.
Love is at the end of a friendship/attraction/love relationship.
Sometimes a guy cons a girl into sex by first professing love when sex is what he's been after from the start.
Rutting males are more driven by their libidos than by consideration.
Just tell that boyfriend of yours "NO" and stick to it.
If he gets angry or persists on going after sex, tell him to get lost.
You can do better than him.
2006-08-12 10:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by ha_mer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the teenage years, the hormone levels are high. You must learn to have respect for yourself and not to compromise your dignity for anyone. Talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel. If you would like to spend more "quality time" together and not have sex so often, tell him that. If he can't respect that, then he is NOT the right boyfriend for you to have. When a person really cares about you, it matters to them how YOU feel - not just how they feel and what they want!
2006-08-12 10:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by NGE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice whether to dump him or not. He is obviously just using you as a convenience for sex. There is no romance there just a physical act of release for him. Why you would put up with that is more than I can rationalize. It makes no difference you are not virgins because you can't get that back anyway, but why be his toy/convenience?
2006-08-12 10:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him why does he want to have sex all the time.after he answers if he does then let him know in a nice way that u need more than just sex from him tell him u need to talk n go out to a movie or just dinner if he doesnt understand that u should leave him cause then it wouldnt be a healthy relationship
2006-08-12 10:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seventeen year old boys have insanely high hormones and are constantly horny. give in occasionaly, but when you don't want to just simpley say 'no'. If he truely thinks of you as more than just a sex machine then he won't mind. But if he gets to the point where he wants to have unprotected sex, and you say oyur not ready and he still nags you, then dump his sorry little @$$.
2006-08-12 12:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by i ♥ sarcasm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry to say this, but his horny behavior is unacceptable. kick his sorry *** to the curb, cause he's not the one who'll be carrying the baby if u got pregnant. it's not ur fault, he's really selfish, a u deserve better. ur worth better. tell him "i don't wanna have sex all the time, stop it or we're through!" if he tries to soothe u or make u feel guilty, it's an act, he's only thinking of his horny needs. DUMP HIM!!!!!!!
2006-08-12 10:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Time to use your head, girl. Have the guts to say "No." If he insist, scream! Anymore of this, dump him. You're too young to waste your body. Continue this and you'll never enjoy sex anymore.
2006-08-12 10:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋