Me and my friend know each other for quite a while.I have told him that i have a special liking for him.weare very open to each other and talk about anything under the sun.but he always says that he will be my best friend,but still he gets romantic and i am confused with what he says and does.and need to say we are on online chat as we are in two different parts of the world.recently we had small fight and hesid to me he wilnever come again to chat with me.it made me so sad that i was crying for quite a long time.now i don't know what to do .i am sure i am fallen for him,and i need to also say that he is in a difficult position.is that could be the reason that he is unable to take any decision or is that he just thinks me as a very close friend.any suggestions please
2006-08-12 03:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by silver 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't think he's ready to pursue a relationship with you just yet. when he tries to make advances toward you or romantic stuff, pull away. if he asks why tell him that you two are just friends. if he wants more he's going to have to work for it. you might even try bringing another guy into the equation. you don't want to wait for him. try to move on. in the meantime maybe he will come to his sense and realize you are the one. best friends make great relationships.
2006-08-12 03:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best 4 U is just forget him & concentrate on other imp. matters related to your career. Chating's not a mean thing, but wasting of time, that too with someone totally unknown. It's fine for a while or so, if the other end person's of any interests, for which U have 2 B selective, & can develope a good friendly relations, slowly carefully. So B patience & do not bother much on such a petty issue.
2006-08-12 12:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Silver i think if ur talking to this guy over the interet and he said he need to get romanic then i think hes just a stupied little boy acting like a guy ur age. So ether way dont get ivolved with him bleave me . this kinda happend to me 3 years ago. But i was talking to him over the phone as my freind talked for him and he sound like a teenager then i kid. And he turnd out to be 11 and i was 14 then and i'm like going on 16 now. so pleaze hope this stops u from makeing a ideot out of yourself. and i really hope u find that lucky someone not over the internet or phone.
Luv yah, Candy^_^
2006-08-12 11:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Candy^_^ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, just like your regular real life friends. just give him time to cool his head. then send him an email or contact him. say " stopping by to say hi" and "what's new with you?". and that's it. see what his respond will be. baby girl. friends will always fight some time or another. don't worry about it. if he's a true friend, he'll let this blow over and remain friends. give him just a little time.
2006-08-12 10:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait -- he will cool down & will come back to u . PATIENCE PL.
2006-08-12 10:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by jayjagjjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats up
2006-08-12 11:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-08-12 10:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋