my best friend always stays over my house at weeks at a time,but this summer she stole stuff from my house and we arnt best freidns anymore but now she is saying she is sorry and returning my things,but i think it is because she is just using me to steal more things and other things.
2006-08-12 03:10:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, I have a similar experience as yours, my friend she stole many things/money from me and other friends of us, then she asked me to forgive her ( but she never returned me my stuff back!), and I was so naive and decided to forgive her, but then it didn't help... she didn't behave herself, and I thought I was too stupid to believe in her once again....
but of course, you should really ask yourself if you can ever trust her wholeheartedly again, cause in my case, even I did forgive her, I couldn't be close friends with her like how we were before, forgiven but not forgotten, and I think it takes a lot of time to really forgive her... But now it sounds you can't really trust your friend all again.
Also, it also depends on if she's used to stealing (like my friend) or if it's only a one time thing. If so, maybe she worths one more chance, but no more.
So you should think if the friendship of yours is strong enough/ worthy to give her a chance. Do you wanna keep her as a friend?
2006-08-12 03:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is'nt it odd that she stole things from you but then offerred to returned them.She could of denied that she took anything.But she did not.Maybe she just wants to live just like you.Does anyone else in her life pay the same attention as you and your family do ? Having a best friend is the greatest!! You can tell each other everything..secrets,dreams,hopes,complaints.And there are fights too.A true best friend never gives up.If you really love this best friend give her a chance to talk to you.Find out why does she do these things to you? Let her know you are there for her but you can't help her if she does'nt open up to you so that you may understand. A real true friend will never gives up.I believe in chances as long as my friendship is not being abused.
Good Luck!
Mimi
2006-08-12 03:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Miriam C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any relationship including friendship is based on trust and if u dont trust her then the friendship wont last any way. u will always be on a look out for her to do something wrong. i am not saying break up ur friendship just give it a little time so u can trust her again. maybe she has issues she has to deal with and asking for help like this. tallk to her and if u dont trust her in ur house just be friends outside ur house where she cant steal anything until this issue is resolved
2006-08-12 03:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is going to use you again to steal more things? Your most likely to be right. If you live with your parents ask them what they think. If she is stealing your stuff she might get into stealing things from your parents.
2006-08-12 03:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman is truthfully no pal of yours. a actual pal would not make relaxing of you in front of your friends. Her little trick of imitating you after which guffawing approximately it shows all of them that that's o.k. to snort at you. Going after a guy which you like is her way of displaying you that she is stronger to you. that's not the act of a chum. You already say that her movements are stupid and stressful. possibly it's time to spend time with people who're not stupid and stressful and who somewhat such as you and know a thank you to be acquaintances.
2016-10-01 23:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she truly is not a best friend, if she was she would of asked to borrow ur stuff and being best friends u would of prob let her. Get a new best friend!
2006-08-12 03:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by fox69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was never a best friend in the first place.
2006-08-12 03:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u give her a try? im not saying u should fully trust her but take her back, and keep an eye on her, see if she really did change. If she did, its one friend back!!
2006-08-12 03:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by F15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let her stay with you until you can trust her again...friends are hard to come by ...good friends are anyway...if u feel she is just using you then kick her to the curb..
2006-08-12 03:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by machele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, with friends like that, who needs enemies?
You need a new friend, let that one go.
2006-08-12 03:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by metrobluequeen1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋