I am married but I stay intouch with my ex-girlfriend, my wife is up in arms
2006-08-12 02:59:39 · 15 answers · asked by charles c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you plan on having an affair with your ex GF? If not then let her go
2006-08-12 03:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that anything that puts a strain on your marriage like that isn't a good thing. But instead of just cutting of your friendship with your ex-girlfriend, maybe try hanging out with your wife and ex at the same time. Allow your wife the chance to get to know her. Who knows, maybe they'll become friends too. If you could try something like that, then perhaps everything may be okay. If not, you've got a very unpleasesant decision to make. Is this friendship worth my marriage?
2006-08-12 03:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kasey A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really all depends on the three people involved. If you're looking at your ex as just a friend, and have no sexual interest at all, that is fine for you. You need then to convince your wife that this is all that is involved. After all you picked her over the ex, right? Be sure that the ex doesn't have any hidden agenda. She may be trying to anger your wife. If this is the case, then you need to decide who is more important to you.
2006-08-12 03:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what she is just an ex-girlfriend and if you are married then you need to let her go. If you got married then you must love your wife and if you want to stay married then stop.
2006-08-12 06:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by barren2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its actually very wrong. At this point of life, u r not commited to either of them. Else, u should have married ur ex.
Make a change. Forget ur ex. Be commited to the person u have married. Good luck!
2006-08-12 03:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife has a problem with it, its wrong.
Why would you do something to cause a disruption in your marriage?
Let the ex girlfriend go so that you and your wife can get on with your lives.
Sounds like you need to grow up a little.
2006-08-12 03:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obviously not a healthy thing for your marriage. Let the past go. Your marriage vows said "forsaking ALL others. . ." You need to stick to your promises. The ex-girlfriend is no longer any of your business.
2006-08-12 03:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If either of u and ure gurlfreind still have those feelings of the earlier relationship then this keep up can be very dangerous for ure marraige. if u guys forget those feelings and just treat and respect each other as normal freinds without love and romance feelings, i think then its okay.
2006-08-12 03:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rather is isn't incorrect, yet I somewhat do not think of it rather is optimal. in basic terms by using fact you're the two married, have a kinfolk and lead 2 distinctive lives. that's a sprint risky. previous emotions might upward thrust up regardless of if the two considered one of you're residing some distance remote from one yet another. possibly her husband and your spouse do ideas, yet want to not say something; in basic terms by using fact they don't desire to return off as being possessive. back, that's my view.
2016-10-01 23:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i tink u suld hve reli tink it for a thousand tyms which one do reli love n u want to kip?if ur wife den let go of ur ex let her find someone else hu can give her wat he needs,don't be selfish!!! den if u want ur girlfrend wats d reason y u have married ur wife?
its just natural to ur wife to act like dat ur not dealing with ur family members ur dealing n keeping in touch with ur ex girlfriends......ders olweyz a possiblity n don't try to swim on 2 lakes at a tym u might be drown.....n maybe u will just wake up 1 day u don't have both of dem.........
2006-08-12 03:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋