i've been married for two years and my husband didnt buy me a ring so i decided what the hack if his not bothered than why should i buy a ring for myself to top it of he dosn't wear a ring too!!!!so what do u think is it okay!!!
2006-08-12 02:57:52 · 18 answers · asked by uro levu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's perfectly ok to not wear a ring if you don't want one. People usually wear it because they like what it represents, sort of the way doctors have the "Dr." in front of their name. But if you don't feel that you are missing it, then it's fine not to wear one.
2006-08-12 03:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't believe in wearing jewelry...My parents have been married 50 years and never wore wedding bands...when I married 16 years ago I chose to wear my rings ( cause I like jewelry, but I don't wear them all the time I choose when I wear them and when I don't) my husband chose not to (that was cool with me)...I think you have to figure out why the rings mean so much to you...Do you trust each other?
2006-08-12 05:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by leta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay not to wear a wedding ring if that's what you choose. I have been married for 16 years and I don't wear mine. Everyone knows I'm married because I tell them so not wearing the ring isn't an issue for me.
2006-08-12 05:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay not to wear wedding rings. If you would rather wear one and have him wear one, discuss it with him. Obviously you didn't have a problem with him not buying you one since you married without rings. Hopefully you are secure within your marriage. Lots of single women look for that ring but it won't matter if you have a wonderful loving relationship.
2006-08-12 04:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never thought so. i think that married people should wear their wedding rings. I think that when a man wears his wedding ring it is a statement of character. From the day i got married to the day i got divorced -15+ years- I took off my wedding ring twice and both times were for surgical procedures.
2006-08-12 04:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a ring does not make you married the vow that you took does but i understand as a women you want it to be visible to other people so how about talking with your husband not arguing with your husband about you two going to purchase some wedding bands don't be be pressured by the big diamond get some simple gold bands he probably wanted to get you something nice but could not afford it so just talk to him it is okay.
2006-08-12 03:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband of 13 yrs, has not worn his ring in about 11 yrs. It broke at his job, he got it repaired, It broke again. He refuses to get it fixed again. Even though he doesn't work there anymore. He never liked jewelry. I can't convince him to wear it. I wore mine until last year. I took it off for good when I told him we were done as a couple.
2006-08-12 06:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by dtammyus♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not substantial in case you circulate everywhere or no longer, the component of donning the hoop is to symbolise why you acquire married interior the 1st place- LOVE. in case you do no longer go with to do an elementary component like placed on your wedding ceremony ring to your spouse, you of course have not got any admire and you need to no longer be married. Married couples do no longer take off their rings whilst they are upset, they artwork it out.
2016-12-11 07:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely fine.
I have so many other rings I want to wear and he has outgrown his (grown fatter) and we didn't bother about it.
If he wants to cheat, he will find ways and means to do it like taking it off and pocketing it. So it's no much of a deterrent against cheating. So don't worry about not wearing.
2006-08-12 06:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been married for 11 years and I very seldom wear mine. Heck, we both know we are married. A ring is just basically a material possession, unlike what you feel in your heart. Don't sweat it. Congrats.
2006-08-12 03:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by snobunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋