these bully were my best friends in 7th grade and then in eighth grade tahy started to make racial remaks and like follow me around school???
what should i do for 9th grade because these two to five kids are in some of my classes.
2006-08-12 02:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by livneetdhindsa 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Guessing from your name, I think you are a sikh. I know there are some crude Sardar jokes going around, but believe me I have nothing but respect for the honor and valour of the sikh community.
Be proud of your heritage and stand up to them.
2006-08-12 02:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Existentialist_Guru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly there probably isnt much you can do.. I went through similar - kids who once were my friends suddenly turned into bullys to me.. but I am older now and see what was happening was that they turned into bullies so they didnt get bullied themselves..
I know that the bullies target people who they get a reaction from either you must not let it bother you and react with humour or really really stand up to them once and for all so they realize you are not going to take it.. but if you get somewhat weak responses they you become prey and they are preditors...
honestly ignoring it is probably the best solution and without saying stuff like "im ignoring you" or "I cant hear you".. just be really casual like if they call you a bad word behave as if they mearly said something about the weather being nice that day.... casual
good luck - remember they are bulling you for a reason - probably they are bullied at home
2006-08-12 02:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I went through a terrible phase between my 7th and 8th grade years when my girls suddenly turned against me (and then went on to target other girls in our group). I ignored them as best I could, developed a few friendships elsewhere and then.......actually became friends with them all again.......but with a twist. Once I was all the way back in, I really got down on any of them doing anything that heinous again, stopped the crap when I saw it happening and, in short time, it ALL stopped. I don't know why but that seems to be the age when people begin testing their individuality and alpha-ness in some strange ways. We live through it and I have to say, to this day it's made me a stronger, more resourceful person. I haven't been afraid of choosing myself as a friend and only myself as a friend in decades. I prefer my own company to that of others and I actually have a solid base of friendship that is truth, love and loyalty based. As for the racism, as you're experiencing, don't be afraid to turn on them and LOUDLY proclaim that their ignorance is spectacular! Suggest that maybe your family and theirs can all get together to discuss their racial intolerance and cruelty (in a facetious way, of course). Offer them that in the meantime, they might want to re-think their insults as their racial slurs only make them sound like idiots. Let them know that you can't change your ethnicity but it may be a good thing if it prevents you from turning into an insecure ****-waffle as it appears they have. I'm serious, get on your high horse and feel much more offended than intimidated. You can turn their stupidity against them by exposing them to themselves AND to others in the immediate vicinity. Then....walk away with the self-righteous look of disgust and annoyance on your face. Be strong, sweetpea!
2006-08-12 03:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK Pic out the biggest one and put your foot in his ***. The rest of them will see you aint going to take it a back off because they dont want your foot in there *** to. If you keep running it will never end. And I am not just talking about school it will keep goin all your life..Poeple like that need to be put in there place so that can see that not everyone will run from them. A bully thinks he or she can run over everyone untill someone shows them different. I know from exprence When i was in school there was 4 guys that thought they was the kings of the school. Untill one day they just keep pushing me and i got tired of it. No i diden fight all of then just the biggest one. I said you want it you got it. Well to make a long story short they never did bother me again!! Because they seen i would just sit and take it. The one i did fight he liked to killed me but i woulden give up and he ended up quiting because he seen i woulden stop. we both got put out of school for 3 days over it and when we came back i just looked at him and said you want it again he said NO!! SO what I am saying is stand up for your self because no body else will!! And you heard it here first from a REAL Nutcase!! i was a nut then and i am a Nuts now ..PS ..did i win...did i win...did i win???
2006-08-12 03:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by dl200558 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullies are insecure folks who seek attention. They actually are desperately in need of loving. They're missing something important in their lives.
If the bullies are bothering you, tell an adult, a teacher, counselor, principal, your parents or whoever. Otherwise, just try to ignore them. If they don't get a response out of you, they'll eventually get bored and move on.
2006-08-12 02:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and have them talk to the school. You need to handle situations like that early. If it continues in school and they do nothing about it, contact the media. They love stories like this.
2006-08-12 02:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by Robb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your parents know? Have you talked
to the principal or one of your teachers
that you feel will support you on this.
Don't let this continue. You have rights.
If it continues I'd even get the police
involved.
2006-08-12 13:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by tychi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...I have the same problem. I told the princepal. They went away for awhile but then came back. Good Luck
2006-08-12 02:53:18 · answer #8 · answered by halynr1500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up to them. whip their butts, if they're bigger use a big stick or something laying around. never use a gun. don't tell teachers or counselers, that'll make it worse. catch them one by one, and sneak a crushing blow to their heads. be ready to fight back .
2006-08-12 02:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by george 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight them until they stop bothering you - you wont regret it
I take no responsibility for your actions!
2006-08-12 02:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by curl joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋