My mate is 27 and still a virgin. I think she should tell her boyfriend before she loses her cherry as if he knows he will be gently with her and understand why she`s crap in bed the first time? Do you agree?
2006-08-12 02:45:01 · 19 answers · asked by pinky p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She does want to sleep with him. She isn`t a wait till ya get married type just never had a serious boyfriend.
2006-08-12 03:17:29 · update #1
Yes she should tell him as he will love it :)
also i told my boyfriend i wasn't a virgin when i was and it was not a nice exp lol
tell her good luck and that she is lucky to have such a good friend :)
2006-08-12 04:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree completely with the fact that she should tell him but, in her own time! If they have been together for some time...why not hold out for the ring if he's the one for the long haul.
My sister waited until she was 30 yrs. old and it happened on her wedding night. She dated plenty of duds and very nice gentlemen, too. I was rooting for her the whole time!
Ahhhh, {clearing throat} If and when she decides to give up her virginity...it does not necessarily mean that she will be "crap in bed"! Lovemaking is from within, the physical aspect of it is learning from your partner and whatever comes natural!
If and when she feels comfortable enough to share that most personal and intimate detail w/ him...she will. I hope that he's really into her and not pressuring her! Who knows...me may just be the very one that is "crap in bed"!
2006-08-12 04:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by blessed_lady_of_love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she'd be crap in bed. it doesn't matter what you think anyway it's what she thinks that's important, have you ever thought she might be waiting for the right time to tell him as there isn't( i imagine ) many 27 yrs old who are still virgins and maybe she's proud of still being a virgin and wants to wait till she's married
2006-08-12 02:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Scottish lass 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should be gentle with her if she's a virgin or if she been in bed with a 100 guys. It's their business. Stay out of it.
2006-08-12 02:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes she should tell him maybe she wont be crap in bed for the frist time but tell her a few tricks that she can do in bed with him that she can do , to help her out
2006-08-12 03:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by marie the cat lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should tell her boyfriend that she's a virgin......and that she wants to keep it that way......the only man that deserves to have the whole of her is the one that's willing to make the commitment and proves it by marriage!
Tell ur friend to keep her cherry in her pants till this that man comes along...Good luck
2006-08-12 03:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you. She should let him know that she hasn't been popped so that way, he would want her more. She can also be excused as to why she sucked in bed on their first encounter.
2006-08-12 02:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by misuran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i do agree but not for those reasons. just because its good to be honest with your partner.
2006-08-12 02:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by chickL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree.
If he's a decent guy he'll understand and take his time
2006-08-12 02:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him either when you are both naked in bed or now. I agree!!
2006-08-12 02:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by parra nipples belt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋