Never seeing his child or even talking to him on the phone for years at a time?
2006-08-12 02:23:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Self center loser that you are better off not having in your life or around your child. Loser is still financially responsible and if loser doesn't pay, have loser thrown in jail for non-payment of child support.
2006-08-12 02:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's awful. I had to go through that (except the drugs and cheating part) for 8 years with my dad and it was hard on us and my mother. I am now raising step children with two different moms who are also sorry and rarely see or call their children. I can't believe people can treat their own flesh and blood the way they do. However, it is important not to bad mouth him in front of the child. They still understand that he is their father and if you insult him you are insulting a part of them and that isn't healthy. Also be sure to let the child know that it is nothing they have done. Try to reassure them that their father is not in a good position right now to see them, or tell them that some people are good at parenting and some people aren't, and of course, their father isn't. I hope you can manage to get some support from him. Just hang in there and be strong for your child.
2006-08-12 02:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by freespirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo does not allow the kind of language I need to use to describe someone like this.
However, birth control is ultimately up to the female. She shouldn't have allowed herself to become pregnant by a man who drugs. The baby could have multiple birth defects. The man is not going to give the money he uses for drugs to the mother for child support.
No matter what you do, you cannot make a father (or a mother) care for a child. Some people just do not have that ability. Especially if having a baby was the last thing he/she wanted to do. Stop trying to "force" the father to accept his responsibility.
2006-08-12 02:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only thing lower is someone who puts up with it. I feel I have the right to say that because I once put up with it for far, far too long. Despite popular opinion, men don't have the market cornered on being druggies, drunks, liars, cheaters, and users.
Burn that last bridge like I did with my ex. If you're in that situation, set yourself and your children free. Tell that person that they no longer exist in your universe and that you hope they mature enough to get help someday. At any rate, they no longer have any place in your heart, not even a tiny one. And say it like you mean it. Don't try to be nice about it. Just civil. That's still more than they've ever earned.
2006-08-12 02:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A neglectful father who should be sent to prison, and should be ashamed of himself for doing so. His child, on the other hand, should be sent to Child Protective Services, where he/she will be perfectly safe and out of harms way.
2006-08-12 02:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by MallBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think to highly of that person, and as far as that child is concerned he will have to deal him or her one of these days and I don't think he will like what that child will say to him, but that will just be to bad!
2006-08-12 02:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by tracy211968 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think, and im not a judging person, but....
the mother****** should be slapped around then pissed on, after being shat on. then be told why, whipped around again, skrewed in the a**hole, shat and pissed on again. this should be broadcasted live on cnn, sky and every other international news broadcaster. then their d*** should be cut off so no child can come from that thing and go through the pain that that one child did.
but like i said i dont judge!
2006-08-12 02:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by bruinveldmuis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD LET IT GO THERES NO POSITIVE SIDE TO STAYING ANGRY AN SOMEONE FOR SOMTHING IF THERES NO CHANCE OF CHANGE YOUR MAIN FOCIS SHOULD BE ON HOW WELL YOUR CHILD UNDERSTANDS THAT ITS NOT BECOUSE OF HIM/HER I CHILD THAT IS SAROUNDED BY LOVEING PEAPLE SHOULD AJUST JUST FINE DONT PUT THE FATHER DOUN IT WILL HERT THE CHILD FEELINGS
2006-08-12 02:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by letta g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an asshole!
Irresponsible!
He should go to jail! He is not worth it..
If he would like to change for the better, why not..
Give that asshole a chance but if not..
He deserves to be....
2006-08-12 02:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by carmela24ph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hold them in high regard. I'm sure He is fighting his
Demons. There is still hope for him, I wouldn't hate him.
2006-08-12 02:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋