Right now I'm not doing well I lost a good job and I'm flat broke,I feel that if I go back home I can start over and plus I know where to go for work.
2006-08-12 02:21:53 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well get off of the net and get your bum back home!Good luck to you.:)
2006-08-18 02:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back home where you have some moral support.
You have friends and family, and you can get a job.
Striking out on your own is hard enough but to do it and then fail. ( And I do not mean that to sound negative or mean)
Can play havoc with your nerves and your mental state of mind. And nobody needs to feel bad just because they lost a job.
What I am saying is friends and family always make the bad situations feel better.
If after you have been home for awhile and you can get some more experience in what you want to do then try striking out again. This time just have a nest egg hidden away to help you when you need it.
2006-08-19 10:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. If you like the place you are living now, start job searching and stay... if you are really miserable and honestly flat broke go back home and save some money. You can always job search from your home town and move again after you save up a little.
2006-08-12 02:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not move back home and become a burden. Hang in and make changes in your life! If you are big enough to move away then you are big enough to organnize your life and make positive changes. If you are flat broke and lost your job then you must be having some kind of a problem with your behavior! Shape up......do you hear???? YOU need to take responsibility for yourself and stop whining and crying "poor me". Go to McDonalds or WalMart and apply for a job. You can save some money by disconnecting your internet service etc. You need to start over on your own.....this is your problem and you need to solve it!!! Did I make this clear enough for you to understand?
2006-08-12 02:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place why do u moved? is it because u want a change of scenery or a change of opportunity. If it is so, then I think maybe u can moved to another place to see if it worked out. If by then u feel that u need to go back home, then by all mean do so.
2006-08-20 01:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by nitewing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...if you have the funds go home. I moved away from my home town area (twice) and both times I had to return. At least at "home" you will have familar things, places, and people. Perhaps you can move away from home later, when your finances are better.
The best place for you right now is home....safe and sound! Don't wait too late, and definitely don't be ashamed. It happens all the time (people moving back home). I lived in Florida for three years, and people were constantly returning home as things didn't work out for them. As I said before, I was one on them.
Peace and blessings....GO HOME!!!
2006-08-18 09:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes moving home, is so difficult, because of the restrictions parents place on their children. You need to have a plan, of how long you stay there, and how to move on out when you have enough money. You don't want to stay too long, because you moved out once, you can make it again, get two jobs if you have too, do't give up. Get creative with finding ways to make money.
2006-08-12 02:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by butterflyclimber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say....get off the pity party wagon and get yourself out in the work place where you live. Go to temp to hire places and register for work. Look in the local newspaper and apply for everything you're qualified for.
Don't be a kicked dog with it's tail between it's legs......GOING home should be the last place you go.
Stick it out...and depend on yourself. You're wanting to go home and that's the easy way out.
I have made it a policy ....in my own home...YOU leave, the door to coming home is not revolving.....(my children come to viist---take a meal----watch a movie---and spend quality time)......They know that coming home is NOT an option....they were responsible enough to leave home and should be responsible enough to accept the consequences in life!
2006-08-20 00:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a home? They'll take you back? You are okay with that? Then by all means go home, get cleaned up, exercise, develop a new plan and execute it.
Don't let one loss discourage you. Get busy. I wish you the best in life. Don't be passive, wishing vainly for good luck. Make your own life! Be the master of your destiny.
2006-08-12 02:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stick around for another month. Keep looking for the opportunity that only the hungry can see. Don't play it safe by going home so early, you'll get home to your village a hero of sorts, someone will then want to marry you, have kids then keep you indoors for the rest of your life. Safe and secure are for Republicans with fears too many to mention here, keep striving until you're absolutely sure you can't survive on your own.
2006-08-12 02:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You answered your question. You should go back home if you're in a mess and you are by the sounds of it. You know where to work and thats the most important thing because you need money. Start afresh.
2006-08-19 23:43:58 · answer #11 · answered by fashionwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋