im goin out with this girl n i wanna split up cos i luv this other girl, but the other girl dnt lov me! wot shall i DO??
2006-08-12 01:56:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
finish with the girl anyway if you don't you'll just end up hating her and it's not fair on either of you
2006-08-12 02:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Scottish lass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I think that you have to be HONEST. Because it's cruel to use another person just because you think you may not be able to get anyone else!!!!!
Apparently its a frequent thing that men will only leave wives or girlfriends, if they have somewhere else to go, where as women will leave because the relationship has ended, with out an emotional cushion.
I hope you let her down gently :( I think you see like a very young person so hopefully there are no children involved
2006-08-12 07:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that the girl you are with is not the one you want then dont waist your time or hers,as far as for the other girl that you do want,you cant make someone else want you,the right one is out there and you just havent found her yet but trust me you will and when you do you will know it,that love bug will hit you like a ton of bricks-good luck
2006-08-12 02:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you obviously don't wanna be with the girl your currently with... i think its just best to end it with her, no point staying in a relationship where your faking your feelings for her, that would break her heart, now... with this other girl, you can still try and work your way to get her, but if shes really not that interested i think its best for you to start looking elsewhere, sorry mate
Good Luck =)
2006-08-12 02:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want to be with you gf then split up. You know the other girl doesn't want to be with you so just leave her alone. Why not just spend a little time being single as you really don't sound like you want to be in a relationship, you sound a little immature to know what you really want from a girl.
2006-08-15 10:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Dump your current lady - you dont wanna be with her, dont waste her time, or yours.
2) Tell the other girl how you feel - If she doesnt feel the same then hey, never mind. You will have sorted your head out and will be free to play the field
2006-08-13 08:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by electric/discotequer/robot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First-how old are you? may u don't have the true understanding of love. fish around, but protect the hook(condoms). second--love is not hard work, if she is not feeling you, than she won't. just get some one different. Man you already got someone--u have no problems
2006-08-12 02:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by calvcanto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do them both a favour and leave them both alone as love is suposed to be a two way thing you dont have that with any one of them so move on.
2006-08-13 23:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by g spotlad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love your present GF regardless of this other girl, you should tell her and break up with her to give her the chance to find someone who will love her and respect her and who can spell.
2006-08-12 02:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dude, Don't use the word "love" here pls. It doesn't change so frequently as you change your shirt. You should say I "like" this girl...
And there is no restriction in liking as many persons as we want to...
You just have to tell both of them.. You don't love them.. You just like them and it should be fine...
2006-08-12 02:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋