2006-08-12 01:54:21 · 25 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I love him but he only shows his love in front of me .My crush on him is completey secret
2006-08-12 02:00:28 · update #1
Well think about that one real hard......Keep thinking.....Keep thinking....ok...the reason they are nice to you when no one is around is because they wanna have sex with you! And whats the easiest way to do that??? Be nice...do you think a girl would ever wanna hook up if the guy was being a jerk to you...unless of course they were into that sort of thing. But sometimes guys are fake when its just you and him because they wanna mess around with you. Also some guys wanna seem like they dominate you in public to thier friends and stuff. They want to show that they are the ones who control the relationship when it should be both of you working together to one common goal.
2006-08-12 01:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid. If you're not worth being treated nicely all the time in his eyes, he doesn't deserve you. Also, if he's so two faced, which one is actually him, and which is the act?
Is he acting "hard" in front of his mates, or is he fooling you with the act when you're alone? Find yourself someone that's decent enough to be themselves no matter who's watching. You owe yourself that!
2006-08-12 01:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They still have to mature!
Boys don't like the hassle they get off their mates when they fancy a girl, so its easier for them to show nothing.
Don't worry, he'll grow out of it by the time he's 20. Its just a macho thing.
2006-08-12 02:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's in their nature to show off in front of others. Usually when they do this they're compensating for something. That's why when you find one with a big **** he'll be nice all the time.
2006-08-12 01:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there from another plant, no, its just that they have to try to look big in front of there mates, even the hardest lad will go soft when your on your own with them, but its ok by the time they hit 23yrs they've usually grown up by then!
2006-08-12 02:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by kirstysholanke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he doesnt want people or hisfriends to know that he is in love... He probably is known as the player and its making his P.R.E.P look bad by falling in love. But trust me he will get over it and he will come around because he will soon realize that you truly love him and he truly loves you... But all you got to do is pretend that you have lost all feelings in him .....
2006-08-12 02:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by cartoonnet01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want to come across as soft, sensitive or that they even have feelings. Its because of the whole 'boys don't cry' pressure that society puts on them.
2006-08-12 02:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends tend to tease about every little nice thing boys do.
2006-08-12 01:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are nice to you when they want something from you! Try doing it back and before you know it he will be chasing you and desperate for some affection from you!
2006-08-12 02:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by libbyft 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because showing emotion in front of his friends would show that hes not an arsehole in front of his friends! ditch him you can do better. u sure hes single?
2006-08-12 05:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by random's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋