wel me and my mum are well close and shes wanting me to go on the pill because she finks that it will be the best thing to do in my relationship with my boyfriend she believes that we are having sex all the time and shes telling me to go on it because shes been there with boys and shes made mistakes and she doesnt want me to make the same ones as her what should i do
2006-08-12 01:45:36 · 16 answers · asked by lauren b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to think about whatever it is that you are doing to make your mom think that..
Getting on the pill is to protect you from having a child for which you aren't old enough to take care of so why bring one in the world.
And of course, she knows that she made mistakes and she don't want you to do the same thing..Bringing a child into the world, you are responsible for it for 18 years..even after it's 18..Your mom wants you to finish school, get a good education, and be able to take care of yourself financially, mentally and as well physically..it's not a bad thing that she is doing..we all want the best for our kids..that's only naturally honey..
I'm a mom too..and I have a 19, 17, and 6 year old boys..that I still has to worry about..is they gonna go out here and make a mistake by having a child at a time and age that they aren't ready to be fathers and they that wouldn't be right to the child to has to be raised without it's dad in its life..
Face it..Your mom loves you and want the best for you..so if she's thinking that you and your b/f is messing around why not put you on pills..she also don't want a child that she will also be stuck taking care of as well..she has you and to her that's a plenty.
2006-08-12 01:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by lil bit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing. You might not be having sex right now. But you may want to in the future.
It's probably not good that your mother is jumping to conclusions. But in order for the pill to be effective it must be in your system for at least a month or so. I think your mother is trying to get you started so that if you do decide to have sex you will be protected from an unwanted pregnancy in advance.
I think you should talk to your mother but you should also consider her position that being on the pill is not always a bad thing and does is not a judgemental thing to do but could be necessary and give you the freedom to choose if you want to have sex safely.
Incidentally, the pill will not screen out STDs or AIDS so it's still important to use a condom.
2006-08-12 01:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kitia_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moms are usually right and if you are sexually active then yes get on the pill,the last thing this world needs is another unwanted baby and the last thing that you need is a baby you are not ready for.A lot of women think that having a baby is the way to keep a man and honey let me tell you,it does not work,having a baby should be only out of true love and life long commitment,if you are ready for that then its fine but until then protect yourself and make the most out of life,after having a baby it all changes
2006-08-12 01:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the pill. It will make her feel better and if you are having sex it will protect you and if your not you will be prepared when you do. It helps with crampsto so you have an added bonus.I take seasonale and get three months worth at a time and only have 4 periods a year try that one.
2006-08-12 02:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from her experience... Dont take the pill AND dont do sex. Not at this time anyway, when you are not yet ready to take on the consequences of your actions.
Glad to know you have a good relationship with your Mom though.
2006-08-12 01:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young, the best thing to do would avoid becoming pregnant. If you are having sex, and not using a condom with your boyfriend, I recommend going on the pill. I agree with your mother.
2006-08-12 01:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 10:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you having sex? And I think it's never a bad idea to be on the pill. Your mom obviously cares about you alot and doesn't want you to end up pregnant too young.
2006-08-12 01:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to give you mom a reality check. CONDOMS!!!!!!!!!! The pill does NOT protect against HIV and STD's. The pill only makes a person not pregnant. Just what we need, not pregnant teens with STD's. Brilliant.
WAIT to have sex and if you do, use a condom EVERY time.
2006-08-12 01:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not told us how old you are but i want to believe you are old enough to engage in sexual activities. your mum is worried for you just like any mum would be. i think a combination of what she tells you and addition of condom would be almost the best solution for you however low the level of pleasure, your life is just so secure.
2006-08-12 02:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by omon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋