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I've always had fantasies of being with women and in those fantasies they were always doing me I could never picture myself pleasing another woman is this normal for a straight female to have these feelings ?

2006-08-12 01:43:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

12 answers

Sure. It may be reflective of some kind of pleasure that you crave but are not currently receiving from you male lover(s). The idea of being unconditionally serviced for love, without having to give back. You can't picture a man ever doing that for you, so you fantasize a lesbian lover doing it for you.
It is a healthy fantasy that doesn't change your orientation in any way.

2006-08-12 01:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by michael941260 5 · 3 0

Its the identity of yourself ....its '' fear '' that you are not able to find yourself loving some one feeling caught in the middle, insecure. This doesn't have to be with another women. Its man and women too finding each others needs. But it could be about a Business or career move anyway even better education. Matter of lose ends.
Fantasy dreams interesting.

2006-08-12 02:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Carmen 4 · 0 0

Like I told my cousin once, she's probably not going to slay a dragon or take a test in her underwear in real life, either. Sometimes dreams are only dreams. I'd give more credence to how you feel about women when you're *awake*.

2006-08-12 04:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1 0

Of course its normal! And the reason you are doing this is because you are not getting enough out of males, and your dreams are displaying what you crave.

2006-08-12 02:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe, it is your subconcious trying to tell you to break free from the shackles of hetrosexuality. i had the same dreams in my teens, and it intensified when i became attached to a man

2006-08-12 02:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it is perfectly normal. lesbians also fantasize about men, it doesn't mean anything.

2006-08-12 04:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by kittens 5 · 0 0

yup

straight men do it as well im sure!

if only they acted on it :p

2006-08-12 01:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0 0

well i always had dreams the i was always the guy during sex thats wat made me wake up to the fact i was gay so it might just be that you are bi

2006-08-15 04:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by crazzykid 3 · 0 0

yea it's normal.

2006-08-12 01:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by BoRiQuA_MaMi 5 · 0 0

oddly enough, yes.

2006-08-12 01:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by js8incher 4 · 0 0

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