and went ahead to it anyway without thinking taking my feelings into consideration. We have to two kids together so we have a pretty serious relationship?
2006-08-12 00:33:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you both should discuss the matter but i dont think leaving him should be an option.
i can understand your upset now but im sure in a few days you will be over it.
men do strange things after a few drinks and also if he was with his mates they probably egged him along and he didnt want to say no to them.
try not to let it worry you, but do tell him how you feel about it.
2006-08-12 00:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u shud think abt the whole picture when u consider breaking a relationship. Answer these questions and if u get a "yes" answer for them go and break the relationship:
1. Is he a bad father?
2. Does he do stuff like this on a regular basis?
3. Does he have another steady girlfriend (other than u)?
4. Is he a responsible husband or boyfriend (BF)?
5. Shud ur BF not be allowed to have stag parties of this kind?
6. Did ur BF go to the stripclub and did some sexual acts with the strippers?
7. Is lying a big enough crime so as to consider breaking the relationship?
if all the naswers to above are in yes, than go ahead and break the relationship.
2006-08-12 00:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by ruffles_1010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious relationship has nothing to do with this. You are trying to control a situation that you have no business controlling. Even if you were married.....You can voice your opinions...but really have no control over what the partner does or doesn't do!
Turn the tables on your partner......You go to an all male review!!! I know in the area I live in they have the Male Strip Clubs!!! Do this and tell your partner...turn about is fair play in the game he's chosen. Or better yet. Attend the ladies review.....with your partner....It might be a turn on for you too!!!
2006-08-12 00:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn immediately i could! If a persons'' doing coke and would not imagine they have a difficulty, that is the time you recognize they're no longer coping with actuality. i'm no longer likely to be sucked down into something attempting to carry onto someone like that once they're no longer contained in the actual international and sane. they could settle for that some issues heavily isn't tolerated by way of their better 1/2--and medicines are between the biggies. Endangering little ones and pets is yet another. Abuse of higher 1/2 is yet another.
2016-11-24 21:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that can answer that question, he obviously has honesty issues, or is just afraid to admit to you he really wanted to go to the strip club. There are other questions that arise also, did his friends pressure him, like calling him pu**ywhipped. He may not be the right man for you but only you can say how bad the situation really is.
2006-08-12 00:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not advise leaving but sitting him down and talking about how you feel about what happened. You say it is a serious relationship so try to find out why he isn't taking it seriously.
2006-08-12 00:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Completly in love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not married? Well I guess you get what you deserve for playing house. I think you knew what kind of person he was before you had kids, that was stupid. Now YOU have brought innocent children into a bad relationship, I am sure they will thank you in the future. My advice, stop having kids. You can't change people, so live with it, or leave.
2006-08-12 00:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let him look. As long as he doesn't touch, what's the problem? Granted, it wasn't too cool for him to say he wasn't going to go and then go anyway, but he was probably under a lot of pressure from his mates and wanted to have a good time.
2006-08-12 00:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that is the worst of his crimes, forget it. He was probably with a group of buddies. Give him some slack. I see no harm in his going to a strip club as long as he is faithful to you.
2006-08-12 01:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont leave talk things out first , dont let something like that mess things up.sometimes couples need to go places like that not like there going home together maybe you should go one time yourself to a place its fun , ive gone myself and im married my hubby got upset but got over it.
2006-08-12 04:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by lmcm1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋