A few monthes ago. i made friends with the neighbors, we got along fine. i 'm not sure how it got started, but him and i slept together, several times. his girlfriend knew i fell in love with him, she was understanding. i'm not sure were they stand. and i'm commited to someone else. I'm not sure how he feels exactly, i know he would like to see me again. i know hes still attracted to me. and i feel so much love for him, it hurts.. what would you do, if you were me?
2006-08-11 23:59:39 · 12 answers · asked by ka b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him how you feel talk about it it wont hurt anything
2006-08-12 00:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by jackie84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prescribe you one order of Reality Pills, to be filled as often as is needed. You are not living in a soap opera, this is the real world. Romantic nature of the situation aside, this is what you are doing: going after someone who has committed to another and contemplating abandoning the one you are committed to.
Theft and neglect. Tsk, tsk, tsk.
On a kinder note though, if you are 100% confident that he is the one for you, and equally sure that he feels the same way about you, than approach him about it and be honest and request an honest answer. If he is a gentleman, he will give you an honest answer, and should you both feel the same way, you and him must both respectfully end the committments you have made. If he cops out or plays around, than forget him. Your story sounds too similar to the tragic stories of men who take mistresses but refuse to divorce their wives. To the men, the wife is a part of life, and the mistress is a little fun. No woman deserves that mentality.
2006-08-12 00:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Gatsby Follower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a complicated mess. You like him, and he has a girl who for some reason actually doesn't mind you sleeping with him. And on top of this you are committed to someone else.
Girl, get a life!
2006-08-12 00:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Phaedrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a bad situation... but you say you are commited to some one else sure doesnt sound like and you say she was understanding look out for the knife in the back because no woman is that understanding about you sleeping with their partner
2006-08-12 00:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Candy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u were his girlfriend and a girl is attracted to ur BF, she does the same way... how would u feel?
2006-08-12 00:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by sweetslashy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how commited u r? bf?or husband? if u just hv bf i tink u suld ask ur self n try to analyze whom u reli love ur bf or him,if u tink him den u beter break it up to ur bf,don't hurt he don't deserve it before he will find out dat ur sleeping with someone else( neighboor ),den talk to ur Neighbor ask him wat he feels for u cause lets face it some men just intend to hv *** evnthough they don't love d girl.it depends on how he will answer u n ur next move...but if u r commited as in u hv husband its a diffrent story,if u hv husband just try to forget him don't mess ur marriage.......
2006-08-12 01:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him b"coz he will play you like a game of chess hahahahaha unless you want to be a pawn in his game
2006-08-12 00:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Swordfish B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him read some tips and articles on this site on how to do that
2006-08-12 00:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and have full attention to whom you are committed with...loving him more is not good and fair...
2006-08-12 00:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i would you and i heard the voice of my heart i might be go with him but if i apply my mind then i will closed the door of his attraction.
2006-08-12 00:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by manav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are committed to someone else, better stop forthwith.
2006-08-12 00:05:50 · answer #11 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋