I just tried to text my boyfriend, I sent the message but it automatically sent to my Ex who had just text me (he has our Son for the weekend) I tried to stop it but it went through.
It said 'hurry back so we can snuggle up in bed and watch the rain'. I ended the relationship with my Ex because he had fallen out of love with me and was just with me for convenience also he was treating our toddler badly (emotionally) although now he is treating him so much better now we are not together (this further lets me know I have made the right choice). I am now with a wondeful man who adores me and I him. So why do I feel so guilty and panicky about my Ex? I feel like I have just been caught cheating!! I am sure I do not love my Ex and would not give up my new man for the world, so whats my problem?
2006-08-11 23:10:09 · 15 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have no reason to feel guilty hun. I have sent text messages to the wrong people and they have been far worse than what you said.
Resend to your b/f and then text your ex saying sorry I was supposed to send that to someone else. if he doesn't believe you then tough you know the truth. Dont worry about something you are unable to change its happened and thats it there is nothing you can do.
If it makes you feel better then tell your b/f you sent it to the wrong perspn
2006-08-12 13:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell the ex it was in error; be forthright & calm & be done with that part of it. Think of it as a wrong number to a stranger.
Then look for the silver lining; accept you have residual ambivalence & this is your tip off to see a therapist to put the ex behind you once & for all.
Sometimes things happen that unmask something else, be glad it happened now & use the opportunity to deal with it.
Things always seem worse at night. Get some sleep and Monday start calling to locate a therapist.
Don't tell the current beau until you are stronger emotionally.
Good luck & don't self-flagellate. You have your priorities straight, some loose ends to clear up.
2006-08-11 23:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by knewknickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guilt feeling is a by-product of the panic. I know if I accidentally texted an ex, I would freak out, mostly I think cuz I wouldn't want him privy to intimate little conversations I have with my loving boyfriend.
Hopefully that's all your feeling, and once you send a followng text saying, 'sorry! oops!' or whatever, you'll feel much better.
It might not be such a bad thing also that he knows how wonderfully you're being treated and how good your life is now... Just a thought.
Good luck love.
2006-08-11 23:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just feel guilty about the text message. Maybe a little embarrassed even. Fess up and tell them both(the ex and the current man) that you made a mistake and sorry. I think you will feel much better then.
2006-08-11 23:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, maybe you are worried your man will react?? that alone if its a new relationship...might weight on you at this point... don't read much more into the fact of Do i love my ex or not.. past relationships with whomever...may have left you feeling like this??? sorry i an't trying to go on and on... just txt your man and say something like.. hey lol went to txt you and mate it went to the wrong number..lol and sent him that same txt..you tryed to send..and relax like he will care,( in a bad way, you know what i mean..) my cp does that...and gets words wrong... looking at getting a new one...Good luck...
2006-08-11 23:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Parents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was just a mistake! a Typo thats all. You sent it to the wrong number thats all. Im male i see things in black and white. However you being female you see things in pink/blue with multi coloured pokerdots. Dont make this a bigger thing than it is. Worst case scenario is your ex will take the mickey out of you for sending soppy shite to your boyfriend.
2006-08-11 23:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Warrior 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem. You just made a mistake and sent the message to the wrong guy. Just tell him that the message was meant to go somewhere else. Not a big deal!!
2006-08-11 23:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by asimenia_psycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why you feel this way.
i would but remember the reason why you and your ex broke up in this first place, don't let him take you for a ride.
what i would do is tell your boyfriend what happend and tell me you told ur ex it was a mistake text message.
i am sure your boyfriend will understand, he might just get a little jealous.but i am sure your boyfriend trust you.
good luck x
2006-08-11 23:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a problem here if you act quickly. Just explain 2 ur ex wha happened. I'm sure he'll laugh if it off. If you think your current bf would find it funny, tell him to, show that you are being honest.
2006-08-11 23:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Elise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see any reason why you should feel guilty if you have a new relatiohship with somebody else basically your rewlatiohsip with your ex frinshed ages ago based on what you saidf and you have moved on he understands that so don';t feel guilty be happy
2006-08-11 23:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋