I like someone from another class. He's cute, tall, sporty, athletic, smart but he's kinda cold to girls. What should I do to make we know each other? I knew him but he doesn't know me...
2006-08-11 22:51:38 · 17 answers · asked by jap0911 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I like someone from another class. He's cute, tall, sporty, athletic, smart but he's kinda cold to girls. What should I do to make we know each other? I knew him but he doesn't know me...
I got his mobile phone number actually, but I'm too afraid to even send SMS to him. My friends said that he never care for any beautiful or sexy girls, and I'm not even cute so I be more afraid and afraid...
What should I do??
2006-08-11 23:04:12 · update #1
Just be yourself. Don't force yourself to be different. If he likes you for who you are, great. If he doesn't, and falls for the person you think he would like you to be, it'll go wrong later. Don't play to easy to get either.
2006-08-11 22:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will help to know that your problem is not unique and faced by thousands of young boys and girls.
Showing that you have a crush will not help. Since he is a good looking chap he probably has too much attention already from the opposite sex and may be finding it difficult to cope.
Find out what interests he has. There has to be something in common - this makes it easier to find an excuse to bump into each other. If at the same school/college you could enroll in the same course. If you shine in the class or get into an informed discussion on the same subjects you are studying he may get interested.
You feel you are not pretty or attractive in the conventional sense. This shows a lack of self confidence. I read somewhere that it is extremely unusual to find a girl who cannot make herself attractive. A confident, outgoing personality is usually an attractive personality.
Take a genuine interest in things other people say or do and you usually find that they will respond favourably. Start by listening more.
2006-08-12 06:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each time u meet him coming towards u just look into his eyes & smile but don't say a word. Try this method for a month or so & see what happen. if it doen't work , learn to say nice things to him for a month or so. if that doesn't work then talk to him that u like his way of life. All this need time or else u make urself so cheap to him.
2006-08-12 06:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Celestine N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. :-D
Just be cool around him. Be open and friendly. Talk and make awesome jokes in front of him. As soon as you think he's starting to notice you, walk with a group of friends right past him and accidently "bump" into him. Apologize cutely (but in a quick manner) and continue off on your way. It's these little things that drive people crazy with attention. :-p
2006-08-12 05:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by masterdeath01 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Here this one worked for my friend. Invite him over next week. Then forget Or (accidently forget) he is coming over then answer the door in your towel out of the shower. Then when he comes in the towel will accidently fall of! Or you can try the bend and snap from that movie legally blonde too.
2006-08-12 05:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say "Hi" and smile. See what happens, what's the worst that could happen. Or Find out what his hobbie is and ask his advice upon something that he is intrested in or he doesn for a hobby. Like Football or something.
2006-08-12 05:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Of Persia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stutter=P try introducing yourself first and then talking but not too much. If he doesn't like you then you're doomed. people don't like to learn to like, they usually go with "love on first sight" becuz they liked that person since the beginning.
2006-08-12 05:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Spectator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him like a person and try saying hi. The worse thing that could happen is he tells you he's gay.
2006-08-12 05:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anne M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say hi i mean the worst that can happen is he doesnt say it back right?
if we go into the teenie bopper flicks accidentally onpurpose bump into him apologize and strike up a conversation
most importantly tho be your self !!!
good luck
2006-08-12 05:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by ashley 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds if he could be shy. Risk everything... When nobody else is near confess your hots for him.
2006-08-12 05:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by paultemple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋