I have this person whom i care about. She doesn't smile much to me anymore. Is there a reason? We just started school and I can't help not looking at her all the time. If she notices she might freak out which I think she already has. It's like she avoids me sometimes. When we talk even though we don't talk much there's nothing negative about it, but I don't see her smiling anymore...
Postscript: Check my other question, it's the same person whom I
truly care about.
2006-08-11 22:50:35 · 3 answers · asked by Spectator 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
aww sorry to hear that, there might be 3 rersons why she's doing this.
1: She doesn't like you in that way (hopefully its not this)
2: You are giving her TOO MUCH attension
3: It's just you over reacting (Yes, i've been through this)
If it's (1), then the best thing you can do is try and forget her and find another =(
Try giving her some space if you think you are bothering her with your attention, and looking at her isn't going to do you any good, you must not bother her, but you must show you are interested in her. Be entertaining when you meet her and make her laugh, be flirtanious (flirt) and see what happnes, hope this helps =)
Good Luck!
2006-08-12 10:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls want to tell the guy that she's not interested but at the same time she doesn't want to hurt the guy's feeling by using the wrong word. This girl may suspect that you like her or something and I guess this girl is trying to hint to you via body language and facial expression that she's not interested with you in having a deeper relationship. Maybe she does care for you in a way that she finds you a nice guy and doesn't want you to get hurt but she doesn't know how to tell it to you. So she is using these ways to let you know that it's no point you keep on looking at her, don't waste your time and go ahead finding someone else. Maybe you can try talking to other girls when she's looking and see how's her reaction. If she talks to you normally then maybe what I said is true but is she keeps on behaving like that, then maybe you need to talk to her but very gently as her behaviour shows some sort of sensitivity. All the best....
2006-08-18 06:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a rest - it sounds like you have smothered her, no-one likes that.
Try making yourself less available to her - women have a tendency to want what they cant have. or better yet what other girls want. If you start spending time with other girls in front of her she will probably come around. If not well then you have some other girls that you can hang with.
2006-08-11 22:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by drewwers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋