Why wouldn't a husband want sex, EVERYDAY, if his wife does (it's been almost 2 mo) HELP?

Question

Been married for 17 years, a very affectionate marriage, I love him with all my heart and soul (And yes it was love at lst site). I have en-sercuity issues (that I am working on, on a daily basis) He is aware of these. He has never given me any doubts (of maybe somtimes he leaves out little details and I get the feeling that he is hiding something-I'm sure thats to avoid conflict)but normallyhe has always made me feel loved. BUT when I see some female going all giddie on him (and yes I do see it as a compulment) I get alittle crazy, vocal and aggressive. Why can't females stay off of someones husband, you know repect thing! Back to my question--2 months ago I blew up, in a crowd, due to him and some chick were talking (yes she had to touch him after every other word) when I walked up conversation continued, then I started to get funning vibs from the two and waited over 15 min. and he not once introduced. I blew stormed off and now he doesn't even kiss be good bye/hello/nothing

Answer 1

Seek help in the way of counseling.

Answer 2

I really don't blame you for feeling the way you did but understand that even though this was hurtful to you, it might've meant absolutely nothing to your husband and thus felt embarrased that you overreacted in front of some stranger. Most importantly, he probably feels you don't have enough trust in him and is angry with you for this. This is a big no, no. The best thing to do is to let him know why you did what you did. Tell him you felt ignored and disrespected. If he tells you that you overreacted over nothing, apologize to him. Communication is important here. If he understands this, then perhaps he can learn to be a bit more considerate of your feelings the next time this happens (assuming there will be a next time). As far as the other women are concerned, you have no control over what they do or say. The only plausible solution here would be that your husband stops putting himself in a situation where you'll be disrespected by other women by showing you some respect in front of them himself. I hope you two can get past this.

Answer 3

Hi, You must have had a S..t up bring aye...and lets just say..your husband is pissed right now cause no matter what and how long he helps he will have and be feeling like hes not enough...you know... and now..yrs later...you still have this worry? You need to believe you are worth loving...stop worrying about hurt...before you lose your love...LET HIM IN...TRUST HIM...when you go off at chicks that you think don't respect that thats YOUR man...it don't show much in the way of trust...look i an't been a *****...just know where you are coming from...FREE YOURSELF...talk to him...let him know that you trust in him to look after BOTH of you...let him decide too... Be strong doll...you can do this...17 yrs is worth that aye...AND HIM...MOST OF ALL YOU!!!!

Answer 4

I admire that you have had such a relationship this close until now. Be happy with what you have as some of us are in a loveless relationship that has existed for years. Give it time. I hope for the best. As far as your husband goes he should Cherish you as wife and tell the girls to move on. I only wished I had a wife that loved me as much as you love your husband. You must be a special lady.

Answer 5

Well, the queen bee,is not to sure of her self.
Your husband is a bit afraid of you right now.
So give some space, and as for the other female, that is lurking around, well she is just smelling the sweet honey that your husband makes for you, but he knows that your are the queen bee, and knows about your stinger. So next time, if it happens, keep that female close to you and get to know her.
As for the introduced, thing, well safe to say that she knows how you are now..
The best thing is to keep you enemy's close to you, and your stinger sharp. Keep your husband happy for an other 17 years,
Just let him know, that when the female of the house is happy, everybody is happy.. Good luck.

Answer 6

Married Life Gettin To Him, Or Going Thru Stress, Or Even An Affiar....

Answer 7

There could be a medical problem or maybe he's angry, or perhaps stressed out. The reason could be any or all the above. He could be having an affair. As far as why women go for married men, they are the forbidden fruit. Maybe you need to try communicating your feelings to your husband.

Answer 8

I'm sorry, but your question has nothing to do with your hater-ranting on other women. Men love to have sex, but not if you turn the bedroom into a warzone!

LOL you women and your jealousy will be the end of civilization as we know it. You know, I don't fear a terrorist attack, i fear what crazy stupid things women are capable of when they are jealous of their own gender. Females use weapons more destructive than bombs and guns. You use each other, decite, and gossip. I can see why you are insecure, you hate everything else with boobs and a perm.

Answer 9

First of all - he must be upset / frustrated on how you acted. He is your husband and I always say this in marriage there are 3 important things to cosider - respect, trust and love.

Apologize to him and try to make him understand what you are going through and have gone through.

Now about your question on having sex everyday well, i think you must consider a lot of factors about this - is he working (tired), his age, and probably medical conditions.

Besides, I am not old but my husband and I doesn't have sex everyday. but we definitely get our fair share of it.

Answer 10

A woman's intuition is very accurate and telling you everything you need to know. He is not denying anything. He probably is havsing sex with some other woman.