i would like to have your comments of how would you feel if you saw your gf or bf's profile and picture in the internet looking for someone?....what if she/he tells you she/he post this long before you've met him/her?
2006-08-11 22:27:44 · 22 answers · asked by steph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would be shocked and super upset.
2006-08-19 14:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, they are looking, not found. If they posted it a while back, it should have a date on the "listing" and even so, they may have decided against it and just didn't have a way to delete it. Do you have any idea how many classified adds for goods I've contacted that said they sold that item months ago and couldn't/haven't removed the posting? Should I hat ethem because the thing I wanted to buy is no longer in stock?
2006-08-11 22:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me, I was told this was an old profile from before, he said he tried to remove it, but he couldnt. Yeah right! Not long after that, I was checking out some other sites and found his profile on more sites, which by the way, were recent profiles.
Obviously, he wasnt totally happy with me or he wouldnt be doing this. We ended up breaking off the relationship shortly after that.
2006-08-11 22:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by lonelybug2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're literally not merely over-reacting. you're blowing this thoroughly out of percentage. at the initiating, there is no longer something that horny about Miley Cyrus. She's lovable, yet that is it. or maybe at 28, a guy can get exhilaration from how lovable a teenager is. so long because the female is decently clothed, who cares? it can be one ingredient if he replaced into searching at a 14yr previous woman in a thong or see-by ability of clothing, besides the undeniable fact that that's freakin' Miley Cyrus! There aren't any revealing images of her! i imagine you want to take a lengthy confusing examine out your self, and your marriage. if you're waiting to leave him over this, then there are different, more effective intense complications available. You sound like you've some self-image complications you could favor to handle. God forbid the guy buys a Playboy. you'll bypass into orbit. actuality examine time. All men look. that's our nature to envision women folk. you may be the prettiest woman to ever walk the earth, and he will nonetheless examine out different women folk from time to time. get over it.
2016-11-24 21:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by wansley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you were on that site, you're guilty too, but that's a different issue. Ever hear the Pina Colada song? Set up your own identity, grab a decent picture of a stranger from the net and go after them and arrange to meet them somewhere and then BAM !! Cold Busted.
2006-08-16 16:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id dump him. My boyfriend was on every dating site availible I set up a decoy and saw what he was doing exactly. I confronted him and he lied and I dumped him ASAP. Players are a dime a dozen. But finding a good honest guy well there far and few between but Ive got mine now . So no Loss here : )
2006-08-19 12:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by paigeannehamilton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW that is crazy this same thing happened to me not to long ago.. a girl found me on the computer and sent me to the site he was on.. i looked at the date and it said it happened while we were together....if u love him u should talk to him... i almost broke up with my bf... but we talked and wrkd through it... his excuse was no excuse but he appologized and we have wrkd through it now we are planning our wedding.... so just talk to him and figure out why he did it and make sure it was done before u 2 were together so u know he didnt lie
2006-08-18 20:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Monkey_lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask, why were you looking? am I not good enough for you!?!?!? tmake it seem like its their fault for lookin' in da first place.
and then DEMAND that he/she cook dinner straight away and will not tolerate anymore of this non-sense!
While having dinner, throw and spit out the food and get all angry, exclaim that its too salty or bitter or too hot! smash some of the plates on the floor, and fume like an ogre heavily inhaling and exhaling.
then say: "IS THIS THE THANKS I GET, AFTER ALL THAT I HAVE DONE FOR YOU!!!!" cliche, but its effective.
then storm off into the shower with your clothes on, put it on HOT or cold your choice, but scalding is best if you know they will come and follow you, so make it seem like its all real. lay on the shower floor, in a foetal position and sob, you know, like youve just been raped and dont know what to do.
2006-08-11 22:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by eddies_online_interests 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would make me hurt and I would come to realize that I am not number one and that he has to find another. If you are casual than keep it that way, however if you are serious than dump them and move on and post your profile on the Internet!
2006-08-17 09:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god,
i'd shoot her, after asking her what her problem with me was or why the **** she's looking for another bloke..
put it this way, i'd give her, her car keys and tell her to go away and not come back til she's had a chance to think about things clearly but hopefully I never have to confront that issue because I love her to bits and she knows it.
2006-08-11 22:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL THE ANSWERS ABOVE ARE NOT LOGICAL. WHY YOU PEOPLE THING ABOUT NEGATIVE ONLY. MAYBE YOUR BF/GF JUST POSTED FOR FUN. YOU CAN LEAVE HER FOR THIS SMALL ISSUE. THERE IS LOT OF FLIRT ONLINE SO ....
2006-08-17 21:54:05 · answer #11 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋