Because of his bad behaviour & alcoholism i wanted to divorce him, but still i love him & he loves me too, but the in laws are creating problems , my kid also misses him
2006-08-11 22:10:30 · 9 answers · asked by prithi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
follow ur heart, u said it ur self u love him and he loves u. keep ur family together.
2006-08-11 22:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has truly recovered and won't go back to his bad habits, you can definitely join him! Sounds like you're both commited to the same goals. As far as the in-laws are concerned, one of you need to be blunt with them and tell them to butt out of your lives. Don't let them ruin it for the both of you at all cost.
2006-08-12 05:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has left the habits of drinking and he is also taking interest to be with you again then definitely u can join him again. and don't forget that he is your husband and you are having his kids also the gift of Ur love.
2006-08-12 05:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the first two qualities mentioned are true, and if the habit is controlled, why not get re-united? Your kid will also love that!!!
2006-08-12 10:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds nice now, but be careful. Make sure his recovery is pretty solid, like a year or so before you totally commit. You can date him for now and see if he is really practicing recovery or just declaring himself so.
2006-08-12 08:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown Oscillator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can join him. If the inlaws are creating problems it's HIS duty to confront them and tell him he's a man and has made his decision. If he's not man enough to do that, please reconsider returning to the relationship. He still needs work.
2006-08-12 05:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were always in love with ure hubby it seems to me. if u love him and as u say he has recovered out of his habits, u can always join him.
2006-08-12 05:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone deserves a second chance ...but if it continues after your patch up DUMP him
2006-08-12 06:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you can, join him to make again a family
2006-08-12 05:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋