my wife and i been going Thur some things 4 1/2 months ago she said that we should split up?

Question

i havein't cheated on her we went danceing and she said that i was danceing with a girl so that was it i love her so much i do every thing for her landry to clean to get up at 7 am and take her to work make diner take her lunch every day i dont no what to do

Answer 1

this incident was her way of saying she wants out but without putting the blame on her. so when people ask why?, she'll say that you behaved "inappropriately."
doing everything for her wasn't such a good gesture only because it didn't allow her to be herself! just maybe she wanted to cook and clean and drive herself to work or even have lunch with co-workers! you meant to do right but in this case, it may have been a wrong.
would you both be willing to try couples counseling? this could be an answer or the marriage may be ending. Sorry and good luck!

Answer 2

Dancing with a girl? Exactly what kind of dancing were you doing to get your wife so worked-up? You see, we wives don't like to see our hubbies having close physical contact with another woman other than ourselves. It's just wrong. Now I don't know what kind of situation transpired so it's kind of hard to give advice without hearing the other side of the story but...if all you were doing is fast dancing far apart from the other woman then I'd say your wife is overreacting a bit. You need to give her some time to get over her anger towards you. If it was really innocent then maybe your wife will realize this soon enough and decides to forgive you. There really isn't much you can do. What you have to understand is that sometimes we believe what we choose to believe and there's nothing you can do or say that would convince us otherwise. Just give her more time and maybe she would come around (assuming it was really innocent).

Answer 3

You shouldn't have danced with another girl, you are only allowed to dance with your wife, unless she tells you it's ok to dance with someone else. She probably thinks that your thinking of cheating or your had already. tell her you love her, and that you hope she stays, and nothing like that will happen again.

Answer 4

maybe she's bored with the routine of your relationship and was not happy with the way your life is.you can take her to dinner in a good ambience and pleasant music and after that take her to bed and make love to her the way you never used to do before.make it more adventurous and make her mourn to death and i think she will be the one to ask you out over and over again.Am I making sense? Goodluck.i share this with you because the more adventurous you are the better.

Answer 5

uhhh..sounds to me like she is looking for excuses to end your marriage. Is she having an affair? You both need to sit down and talk then Get professional counseling FAST! Marriage is 50/50 it sounds like you are trying but you can't do it alone! Good Luck

Answer 6

Sounds like she's really insecure, has she met someone else? Not too many men out there that does that much for their wife. She's lucky.

Answer 7

Jay....dude you sound hammered. Shut-er down and go to bed. You are slurring your words bad and not making a whole lot of sense.

Answer 8

nothing becuz what ever u do to make her happy she'll just find some other reason to split, just let her go if that's what she wants.

Answer 9

stop waiting on her hand and foot and she'll have to appreciate what you do for her when she has todo it herself. That might help immensely!

Answer 10

hey she probably doesnt want to be with u and she is just finding a way to leave you. so just bye