Well I have this one friend of mine who is erally important to me and here's his case. He is straight and his now "fiance" (for a bit now) is bisexual. About 3 weeks before his proposal to her she and I went to a party over at our friend's for her birthday. To get straight to the point. She had sex with the birthday girl that she had been crushing for a while even before they started dating. And he does not even know. I want to tell him, but they seem to be progressing happily. So I ask for your opinions please. Should I tell him? Should he stay with her? Should she tell him? Was it wrong? Does he have a right to know? Things like that. The diamond ring is about to approach soon and time is a wasting.
2006-08-11 21:54:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell him!!!! He does have a right to know!!!! BUT this all depends on if he REALLY is your friend.
2006-08-11 22:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by golddiggalova 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has to tell him or you will. Because he's your friend and he does have a right to know. Where it goes from there is up to him. He might not think it's that big a deal, or he might. That's up to the two parties who are in the relationship. But deceit is the one thing that's never ok.
2006-08-12 12:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, what a dilema you are in. well, i personally have got involved in situations similar to this before- dont get involved.
What I find is that sarcasm helps, and a few hints here and there.
I would show the girlfriend that i was onto her, and at the same time be sarcastic to my friend about her choice of partner- trust me it works a treat- but dont be too rude about it all, just give enough to show your unhappiness with his choice/ what the girl has done. goodluck
2006-08-12 03:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know. I tend to stay out of people's personal lives. I don't always see it as my duty to report on other's misdeeds sexually. But I do believe she stepped outside of her commitment to him. Being bisexual doesn't only double your chances of having a date on Saturday night, as the old joke goes, but it also doubles your chances of committing adultery! Your responsibility to a partner to be faithful doubles!
2006-08-12 01:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to tell him, he has a right to know, and she is not going to be able to keep up a facade for the rest of their life.
2006-08-11 22:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him or make her do it
either way he has the right to know
2006-08-11 22:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with ☺Everybody . If she did it once, she'll do it again.
2006-08-11 22:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by JoJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋