I noticed in every school my kids go to there has to be some stubborn kids. Apparently one "popular" kid was really mean so a student wrote on her journal saying you are such a stubborn b***h you should go straight to h*ll. Bye bye. And that kid thought it was my daughter and she started bullying her and calling her names and spreading rumors about her when it wasn't her. Later the student who did write in the popular kid's journal admitted it was him but they still bullied my daughter. If I talk to the teachers at her school my daughter wouldn't like it so is there anything I can teach her to stand up to those bullies. Because my daughter is weak and she didn't fight back she just stood there.
2006-08-11 21:19:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well.....your daughter needs to decide if she wants the bullying to stop or not. Talking to the teachers is something you could try although I'm sorry to say I doubt that would even help you. From what i've seen in schools, they won't really do anything about it anyway. Just teach your daughter to stand up for herself. Some bullies try to make other kids do what they say. If that happens, she simply shouldn't do whatever it is. When they start coming around her, tell her to walk off. If they continue to follow her around, then maybe she should talk to someone about it. After all, remember something here, minors or not, harassment is still ILLEGAL *big smile* so keep in mind.....what bully kids don't realize is that they really can get in trouble for what they are doing. So she could try just ignoring them by walking away. Sometimes that works, sometimes it makes it worse since that will also make some kids think they are scared and they will do it more. if this happens.....go to the school about it. If they don't do anything to stop it, and it continues, go to the police, because then not only will the bully get in trouble, but the school will too....for not handling the problem and protecting the child by making sure the school is a safe environment. that is my suggestion. hope it all works out ok.
2006-08-11 21:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by £i£-ßrAt 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can teach your daughter to always go for the weakest parts of the body such as the knees, face, and stomach. Don't be afraid to fight dirty kick, scratch, bite whatever it takes for them to stop the physical abuse. Remember do these things only if she is in a situation where she can't walk away. You can also get her self defense classes at a gym. She should never be afraid to defend herself. Even if she loses a fight then the kids can know she isn't someone who they can just walk over without her hurting them. Tell her that she should always let people know that just because she might be a little weak she can cause damage if you disrespect her. Never ever let rumors or peoples words hurt her. she should always keep her head up and be confident. Tell her all the good things about her so she can know that she has something that she can take pride in and let her know that you will always help her out. I hope this advice helps.
2006-08-12 05:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by str8 balla 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if I were you... I'd tell your daughter to knock that ***** one! I'd tell her if she got suspended from school I'd be the proudest mother out there!
Okay, but I doubt you like that answer... So maybe try looking at it from a different angle... You should be proud of your daughter for not retaliating... Try not looking at it as weakness but as strength...
I use to get bullied when I was younger, its a stage people go through... I never really said anything back, I never stood up for myself, I just took it... And every once in awhile my best friend and I would talk n cry together cuz we both got bullied, but it only made us stronger... Now her brother is at that age, he's really popular in his school, and one of our other best friends, her sister is the same age... She gets bullied and we dont really know if my friends brother is nice to her at school, but girls can be real b!tches... Its really sad for my friends and I to watch, and we all remember those days, they weren't to long ago... They ended when we started grade 9...
Just tell your daughter to hang in there... Take her shopping, get her some nice clothes... Make sure she feels pretty... If she wants to wear a lil more makeup, let her... Let her hang out with friends any chance she gets, make sure she stays social... Thats prolly the best advice I can give!
2006-08-12 04:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she got beat up with fists or words?
if fists, then you should be going to the police
if shes being bullied by words, then yoou eed to help her gain confidence in saying stuff back..if noot then shesll ahve to learn how to ignore them..(ignoring is what i would do, since i alraedy think those people are fools and its uselless talking to them..besides those peole will evetually find sumthing else to do..)
just my two cents...
2006-08-12 06:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple get a book from www.paladin-press.com there's books there that teach you how to kill with one blow. Look Up books on DIM MAK
Also check out www.kcm.org and www.joycemeyer.org
If she can punch them in the throat or if its a guy simply grab his adams apple, he wont bully for awhile and it might kill him. Another thing to do, is grab their ears and yank, it will pull their ears off their head.
2006-08-12 04:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well,it depends...do u wunt ur daughter 2 fight?
2006-08-12 04:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋