has any body ever had a long time affair with a married man or woman tell me your experience good or bad?

Answer 1

There experience can be segregated in two halves. Any romance, while in progress, results in immense pleasure especially if such relationship associates taboo of social prohibition. The second half of the experience arises while or after parting which is so bitter that one questions the necessity of having such relationship.

Answer 2

I haven't ever had an affair with some one who has been married but I did have an affair while I was married.My Ex-Husband was a jerk who treated me like crap so I cut him off from having sex with me totally .. but I still needed to have some sort of "fulliment"
I was too repulsed by the Ex-Husband to pretend he was someone else so I began having affairs which one after another turned out horrible!! They all wanted more than I was able to give at the time .... a full blown relationship... I was already in a horrible relationship... I didn't want another right away. It was exciting at first all the sneaking around.......trying not to get caught and all but after a awhile it got to be exhausting and depressive. Always having to remember lies to cover up stories and etc..If you or some one you know is thinking about having an affair I wouldn't recommend it.

Answer 3

I had an affair with a married women for 2 years. We were together every day of the week that her husband was at work. One day we were caught by a neighbor who told her husband and he divorced her. We moved in together and you know what happened next. I was the one being cheated on for the next year. Its not a good thing. First you become very emotionally attatched and then you end up getting hurt. I have seen it happen to more people than just myself. It is a regret that I wish would have never happened but I guess you have to learn from your mistakes huh?

Answer 4

yes I have been in a relationship for almost two years with a married man and I am very much in love with him,sometimes it's hard but I love him enough to deal with it.To spite all the downfalls involved with loving a married man I would do it all over again.We have a great time together we really enjoy each others company even when all we are doing is talking or watching tv.It has been a wonderful time,the happiest I've ever been.To all of you that think bad of me-kiss my ***!

Answer 5

Yes, 10 years and still. We are very very good friends also. The reason we choose not be together is that he is black and his family is very much against dating outside their race. We are both adults and agreed from the begining that this is how it would be. Just depends what you can take and for how long.

Answer 6

It is bad, you end up torturing yourself, you know, like getting a stone and hitting yourself in the head... You start out hopeful but you end up hopeless.. It's all the same... promises.. promises... promises are made to be broken.. You want to get out but you can't.. Don't start it, it won't work...

Answer 7

The experience is alway bad. You begin to disrespect yourself. Don't sell yourself short. Your better than that.

Answer 8

well not me but my sis and its going on now about 10 years and no shes not happy yet she says she loves him and he still hasnt moved in with her hes been in his own apt and says the divorce is still going through for about 5 years now.

Answer 9

it was good experience. she made the right kind of noises at right times

Answer 10

though i didnt try or never intend to do so. but by using my morality and common sense i assure you 100% its BAD. and its inhuman