**Guys Only** What matters more: Looks or Personality???

Answer 1

You've gotten one answer which has topped the charts dramatically: personality. Many think that personality is far more important than looks when deciding prospective relationships with people.

But a sexual relationship will never work if there's no sexual attraction present. Sure, the personality will bond you two together, but if there aren't any looks there that'll bring forth your animalistic urges and desires to have sex, then where will the relationship go? The answer?- the gutter.

Personally, I'd also go with personality. I've known too many people with looks that can kill, but I suppose after spending years staring at themselves in mirrors (while humping them...), their brains were killed in the process. Sure, they're nice and by all definitions, "hot," the "hot" factor isn't going to give you a satisfying relationship. Once sex happens (if it's only looks-based attraction...) you'll realize immediately that it's all fake and all future ideas of a, well, future relationship will die.

Personality bonds people intellectually, spiritually, and emotionally. Looks bond people animalistically and sexually. The only reason why most people pick one and not the other is because they're either idealistic, searching for that "perfect" someone, irrational, or they've experienced too much past trauma with another person (or other people) of the opposite traits. For example, Person A can say that he prefers personality because he's been screwed over by too many good-looking people. Or Person B can say that he prefers looks because he hasn't had relationships with too many people who he thought was "hot."

As for me, I look for personality when making friends. I don't strive to make relationships with others sexually because I close myself off from being hurt in the future. Sure, it's a little defeatist and pacifist, but hey... it's my life. And I AM honestly talking from an unbiased point of view, because I've been involved in some "sticky situations" (no pun intended... ah, what the hey; read into it however you want, lol) with people who wanted to "get closer" with me. Many times, I've denied people. Looks, for me, are THERE. But it's not like I'll have a better bond with someone because of the way they look. But I may call them sexy once in a while (aka every waking moment, lmaoo jk). What can I say? I'm a pu$sy. Lmaoo. ;-)

Answer 2

personality matters most to guys, like me, unfortunately there are guys who go around just looking for the "hot chicks". looks matter, but most of the time not as much as a girls personality.

Answer 3

I think most men would prefer a decent looking girl with a great personality to a supermodel who is a witch and can't hold a conversation. It's the combination. If you're low in one you can make up for it by being strong in the other. But if you're too low in either one you're out of luck.

Answer 4

personality. Beauty in the mind = beauty in the body
If you have a great personality u will look fine to ure lover. Although that doesnt mean that u stop personal hygine cuz u need to try to look presentable

Answer 5

I won't lie, looks are extremely important. That's not to say you have to be a model, but I must find you somewhat physically attractive. But, having said that , personality can go a long way towards compensating for many physical short-comings. And no one is perfect.

Answer 6

for open friendship and 1 night stands the looks matter and for lasting relationship or marriage, the personality will definitely matter over plain looks

Answer 7

well, some guys go for looks while others go for personality, but looks are very important to show ur personality, if u don't have good looks u can't attract anybody towards ur personality...........suppose there are a lots of girls in a disco and a guy enters, then he would obviosuly go to any girl who is good looking, however there might be a lots of better personalities, but those personalities don't get a chance to show themselevs due to their looks................got it ?

Answer 8

i think of initially looks is what makes a guy fascinated, whilst love comes out of your character. To specific adult men however i could wager to assert that looks are extra considerable, yet that's a call and by no ability time-honored.

Answer 9

It sounds like you think it is looks. while its true that looks count, honesty is a personality trait among many others. I usually shy away from pretty girls only from experiance. Give me a girl with no make-up any day over a girl with a tatoo above their ***.

Answer 10

Personality and charm has gotten me laid alot more than looks, cause i'l not a hot looker, but I can charm the hell out of women!