I haven't seen my friend in a very long time now. no contact, no communcation, no talk, ever. Its been 3 months now. and I haven't seen him. I'm get depressed more and more. I try to call him but, his cell phone is shut down. He won't answer his house phone. No computer. lets just say no communcation period. I'm getting really depressed. Last time I saw him was in June. Now its August. I sent him an email telling him how my friends and I miss him so much. His mom said that they moved to LA. my friend told me this because he was talking with the mom. I don't know if this is true or not, but i hope its not. Mann.. if only you were me, you'd feel my emotions. He's one of my best best friends ever. We've had so many gooood times in high school. Im a senior now. I've known him for 3 and a half years. and we've been through thick and thin. I've talked to the mom, she won't let me talk to him. What should I do? I miss him sooo much. he's like a brother to me. I dont know what to do. Im so sad
2006-08-11 20:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by Joshua G 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
hey this is called life.
it won't stop for u
i too had a best friend
we were very good friends
now i have lost the contacts
i never saw my friend,its almost 5 years now
but i went on
i made new friends
though i remember my friend,i dont miss her
because i have new friends
in life u will meet so many people and u wish them to b with u always
but its not possible
evry one have dreams and they just move away from ur life to fulfill their dreams
so u should move on
u will meet so many people
u will make new friends
u will lose ur frends too
but life goes on
2006-08-11 20:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so depress right now, get some help... consult a doctor or a councilor, or who ever that you think that can help you with your present situation. Did you have a fight with him? Some unresolve issue between you two? I mean, he must have a reason(s) why he doesn't want to talk to you. Did you go to their house, already? Pay him some visit sometimes. Or, visit him when the school starts. And, if you two have the chance to talk, tell him what you want to tell him, just be honest and direct to the point, but if he still ignores you, its time to let him go and move on, at least you know you did your best to save the friendship. It will hurt like sh!t but there's no use of hanging on. But, first thing first... if you feel so depress... get some help. Think about yourself, also.
2006-08-12 05:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn Treader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if i were u, i would keep trying to get in touch with ur friend. Don't let a good friendship slip away. In the meantime, i would hang out with other friends and family. Try to get ur mind off of him. You might just have to move on eventually. The situation is very suspicious. But there is probably an explanation for it.
2006-08-12 03:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always good to have more than one best friend because in situations like this then you can choose and pick... Life is short and borrowed... go out there and make new friends...dont spend too much time with one person you will end up relying on when times are low.
2006-08-12 08:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by elainefromlondon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look that is nothing to be depressed about!try moving away from all ur best friends,or having ur dad die when ur 2 in a half. this is something to be depressed about.ok?
get it strait! if any 1 should be depressed it would be me ok. my life is a livin hell. some time i wish i was dead!!!!!!!!!!
srry if im being mean but its the only way. if u want to talk 1 on 1 my IM on yahoo is freakypie21 or purplecookiemonster99.
BYE BYE
2006-08-12 03:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by freakypie21 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have some one else call for you and get him on the phone with out mom knowing about it. Then ask him if their is a resone that you are no longer staying in touch.
2006-08-12 03:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, see your doctor for help with the depression.
Next, ask his Mom again if you can have his land line phone number. Call him!
Maybe something really difficult is going on in his life. Don't take it personally.
2006-08-12 03:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by soxrcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have a very valid reason. Dont push too hard. Let his mom know that u will be around if he needs u. He will get back to you in time.
2006-08-12 03:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh... are you sure his Mom doesn't assume you as a fà g yet? You sounded like you're missing a lover. If you're sure you're still a guy, better for you to move on. He'd respond to you if he considers you his best friend, too.
2006-08-12 05:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ,cheer up.Take a good shower.Wear your favourite
clothes.Have a warm drink.Go for a walk.Admire the nature.
God loves you.
2006-08-12 03:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mummy is not at home 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋