He is a business man. His base is in Asia Pasific. He is gerenal manager for the one success software company. His parent is Ph.D and Nano Tecnology scientist. We almost have wedding and we already built a house. this house is not complete yet but 6 months. We broke because our communication was error so many time. He is busy with his job. i also busy with my job and my thesis. Time zone is so different. i want this guy back but i feeling embarassed to him. we now still talk on skype or sms or email and mobile. But there is not romantically talk.He said he is happy to talk to me . he said i am very strong woman. I dont know how to start and let him know that i still love him and want to clear up out confusion. please help me . i am now unhappy and i do not strong as same he felt. I cried when I talked to him but i was not show or let him i crying. i cant work for 100% when i use my computer i still wait to see his email or skype. Oh!my..
2006-08-11 20:15:24 · 9 answers · asked by boathouse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After reading your sad story I feel sad for you.. I would agree with the #2 answer, you typed out a very nice question and if you take your question and change a few things then send it to you boyfriend. You both are very young and with better communications I think that you and him can patch things up, even with all the time zone and working on your thsis plus both of you working for different companies, it is going to be difficult, Try to set up times either late evenings or very early early mornings. What about weekends, what is your time line for those days. It sounds like both of you have put so much hard work in the future of your relationship I would hate to see lost because of a quick decession to end it. In my country, young people don't make plans for the futures until they are married and have 1 child. Its sad to see this happen here. What I'm refering to is that you and your botfriend have already built your home which is a very big expences. I would hate to see both of you throw that away. So, get out your calendar and set down and start MAKING time for your relationship. Plan your communication better inorder to stop there the bad communications.. Do small things to let him know that you are still out there and he is always on your mind. I do not know what is exceptable in your culture as far as how you build your relationships. If I'm to forward with me suggestions, please forgive me. DO NOT GIVE UP PLEASE... If I were a woman I could think of more thinks to do and you will probably get some very good answers, ok. I hope this helps and I wish Good Luck..
2006-08-11 21:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey what he does or what his parents do are not really important in your relationship. Can he cherish you? can he stay true to you? can he put your marriage and the future family in front of everything, meanin his family, career, success, money etc? Does he listen to you? you should ask the same questions to yourself. If you think he's the MAN!!! go for it. Meet up and spend some time getting to know him better, marriage is the most important decision you'll ever make, it can't be WRONG. you can't choose the wrong one. otherwise you won't be happy at all no matter what. it's not a contract. it's devotion and giving and being your best and always building up with selflessness and respect, loyalty and kindness. communicate with him, express your feelings to each other and compare your goal in life....see if they match.
2006-08-12 03:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sailormoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him go for it ..but if he dosent feel the same dont let it hurt you and just becuase you have so much planned out and set already isnt a reason to go back just in case you only want the security ...it always takes time to get over someone you care for and spent time with that dosent mean its always love just heartbreak.
2006-08-12 03:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by amber g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I read your question and I guess you should know first if he still love or not, he still want to be with you or not, then if yes, just tell him that you love him and want him back. we meet the real love once in our lifetime, so if he is your real love don't lose him, and don't be embarrassed. there's no embarrassment in love. just say it to him and come hell or high waters.
any way, it's your decision at the end, and I'm sure you'll make the right one.
2006-08-12 03:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang in there. if he is waiting for you too, why dont you just finish your study and both of you get together? and yes someone has to move in to make this relation successful. so work on that accordingly. for true love people can wait years! so dont worry. just maintain good relation with him , inform him your plan , and your intention to marry and future plans. if both of you agree i guess no one can stop you. wish you good luck. but make sure he is available.
2006-08-12 03:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him and clear all the things! 'cause you still love him, so let's give yourself and him a chance! you have to make this problem clear or you will not happy.
2006-08-12 03:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by vantha_nou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet someone in your time zone. You're probably something he has on the side. It also sounds like you're more in love with his career than you are with him.
2006-08-12 03:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Rico 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 15:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him everything you said in your question. Thats a good start
2006-08-12 03:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by voyager21_1999 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋