I have dated many guys and have had 3 serious relationships all 3
of them got married to someone else. So I guess I just wonder if I will ever meet the right one???????? Advice please!!!
2006-08-11 19:55:00 · 8 answers · asked by prettygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you should try going out with a different type of guy. For example, if you are normally attracted to construction worker types try going out with a white collar worker. I was always attracted to the bad boy type when I was younger and I did marry my "dream" man, but after 9 years with him I started to notice we didn't have anything in common anymore and I ended up leaving him. Soon after though, I met a man that was totally someone I never would have given the time of day to a few years earlier, but he seemed nice, so I agreed to go out with him. Next month we will celebrate our 20th anniversary! He has made me happier than I ever thought possible. I'm just telling you this to show you that true love does exist and secondly you will find it when you least expect it. So stop trying so hard to find it and let it find you. When it's right, you'll know it!
2006-08-11 20:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmm...well I ended my 1st Marriage after 21 years of his abuse and infidelity. I never thought I would ever be with another man. I didn't date or do the Bar thing after my Divorce. I didn't trust men and swore I'd never be hurt again then 2 years later I met the most wonderful man I had ever met in my life! Well that was 5 years ago and we are still crazy over one another and happily married! We both knew we were right for each other from the moment we met. so yes it is possible! stop trying so hard it will happen when it is meant to happen...anything is possible! Good Luck
2006-08-12 05:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is you are not confident in yourself and you dont have the boundary on your expectation . these are causing you failure to concentrate 100% in a relationships, and you are always in dilemma that other man would be good for you..... i think you got my message. just try to value the person whom you liked , never ever bring other thoughts about other men. this would help you to have a real relationship. i think yes, there are many points in you for which you can blame yourself so you need to change those views for better life.
2006-08-12 03:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have answered a few of these so far and I keep telling people, why are you looking? Be single for awhile and stop latching onto the person because you want a relationship. You will find the one and you both will know.
2006-08-12 02:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by boxerlovergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet the right guy you'll know. You'll feel something with him that you have felt with no other. I met my husband ten years ago and I never met anyone like him or that I felt the same way I feel for him. You will know and it will be great when you do. Just give it time god will send you your prince charming when he know's you're ready
2006-08-12 03:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by thumpr278 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just to let u know there is no such thing as true love .. people get merried so they wont live a lonely live or just so they can have kids or just to have an excuse to have sex...no one ever merries for true love ...if someone say they do... they are very lost
2006-08-12 03:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking, stop waiting, stop expecting anything, thats when the right one will fall into your lap. its when u expect nothing that u get it. just relax and let it b all about u 4 the moment and he will come and it will b great.
good luck, i wish u well with this.
2006-08-12 02:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing how to make a good relatonship is the most important thing. i'd study relationship books, etc.
2006-08-12 03:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋