if the sun is shining he says it is terriable sunny outside. if there is no sun he says it is terriable tolive without sun. he does not work because he is too much good, as he says, for the jobs such a tourism, but he can not find nice job. he made me to work even i am still in breast fidding. he loves money so much, before to bue anything i have to ask him. he is empoisoning every nice day of mine. i want to divorce but he says he will do everything for to get baby, even he does not love our doughter. i would like to find and spend my life or some part of it with the person who loves this life and knows how wonderful it is to live. i love my baby and my life and my job, even it is not perfect, but person will never sitisfy, as my husband says.....
2006-08-11 19:54:31 · 11 answers · asked by sun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love him. Learn him. Please read the book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" by John Gray.
Visit http://www.marsvenus.com/
Divorce or leaving him is not the only solution.
2006-08-11 20:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
that comment of your husband person would never satisfy is verily correct and very important. if you have thoughts about other men in your head just suspend those immediately for the sake of your kid. how do you know other man would be good for you? in most cases its our wrong perception and spoil our life. just concentrate in the family and try to resolve the problems by discussing with your husband. only both of you can solve the problems. and in relationships you need to sacrifice a lot its not like mathematics or matter of business . just try to fill your hubby's heart by your love so that he becomes your slave. and those complains about your husband are not that important , i guess those are in your mind because you have an infant and you are emotionally weak. cheer up and everything would be fine. ups and downs are part of our life divorce is not the solution. its very destructive.
2006-08-11 20:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Deepthoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about it or if you are that way you cant stand being kissed & coudled by him get some leagle advice but it could be costly. We have been married for 40 yearsnow & my wife is the best friend I have but we still argue & fall out, But not for long. Good luck
2006-08-11 20:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by col 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as true love .... people get merried for one of the 3 reasons. 1 . to have sex 2.to raise kida or 3 so they wont live a lonely life
2006-08-11 20:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If YOU love your daughter, you'll protect her from HIM. Why did you go and create another life with this guy?! Surely, you must have known what kind of person he was before you became pregnant.
2006-08-11 20:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Answers to Nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him. Unless you're doing drugs, you'll get custody of your daughter. They hate taking kids away from their moms and you're the only one with a job. Take care of your daughter and take care of yourself. You don't need that loser.
2006-08-11 19:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd get some self-esteem training to cope with him or anyone else that's negative.
then counseling for the marriage and study relationship methods.
last DIVORCE!
2006-08-11 20:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you put your daughter threw that if he doesnt love her, get out of there, whats next? you gotta ask yourself, looks like hes just using you. hes the one that needs to be working, you just had the child.
2006-08-11 19:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lady, smoke some more dope, and while you are at it-take a language course at your local college.
2006-08-11 19:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by vhcsmamma 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what country are you from
2006-08-11 19:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋