y do i hav toughts of killin me my life is nothin?

Question

i hav no gf an i hav a anger problem get piss off to easy i need help. the only thing im good for is getting people to better lives y mine goes down . i feel like im fallling in a pit trying to climb higher but cant y other use me to get where tey need to be.

Answer 1

Sorry to hear this.

Jesus can help you with your anger problem if you commit your life to him.

Please commit your life to Jesus Christ. He loves you and died on the cross for you.

For a brief explanation of the gospel (of salvation through Jesus Christ), see http://www.godsci.org/gs/new/essence.html

Cordially,
John

Answer 2

Bryer...Don't say that your life is nothing. you said ppl use you to get where they need to be right? Your serving that purpose aren't you. Your being there for someone when they need it. That's a great thing to proud of! Don't feel you aren't getting anywhere because you are...Your still here aren't you? keep staying here! You will do great! killing your self is a very selffish thing to do, and it's an easy way out of life. I have attempted suicide M-A-N-Y times and I am so thankful my attempts were unsuccessful! I woudn't be able to see how strong I have become if I committed suicide. I didn't have patients for kids at all about 10 years ago. My daughter is 8 years old and at that time she was born, I was so scared that I would not want to raise her because of my impatients...GOD proved to me that I would do just fine and not just because she is my daughter, Ive learned to see why being with kids are amazing moments, they are precious and they need us adults to be there for them...I still get annoyed but I do NOT hate kids.

Don't dwell on having no Girlfriend...look at it this way, GOD is preparing her for you, HE is working on her to met you....you will know when SHE finds you...don't look for her though. Think of this like Christmas Eve, one morning, your gonna wake up and find the gift you have always wanted, a girlfriend that was meant to be yours forever...now, you may have a few from now but don't assume that everytime you meet a girl and she becomes your girlfriend that she is the "Gift" you've been waiting for, just treat her right, and pray about it...or not....that's your choice...but don't worry...take care of yourself the very best way that you can.

Seek a councilor and/or a Doctor for your moods so you can get help on not getting so upset so easily K. It will work out if you put your whole heart into it. I can tell you MANY stories and give you comfort and answer many of your questions for you if you want to email me okay.

God bless you and I will keep you in my prayers!!!!!!!!
~Carla

Answer 3

If you have that bad a temper then you should get professional help.It sounds to me like you are hiding your self-consciousnesses through your meanness though. Once you get the deep-rooted problems handled, the anger problem will probably go away by itself. Just believe in yourself; it's so easy to down yourself, but if you do that, then others will think it's okay and it never is okay.

When life puts you in a pit and throws it's garbage on you, you have step up, stomp it down and you'll rise a little higher.

Answer 4

Bryer, don't underestimate your worth. I feel that you are clinically depressed. Please go to a family practice doctor and tell him exactly what you wrote on here. The doctor will know how to help you. You can feel much better and get a handle on life again. My prayer goes up for you! God made us and loves us --that includes you. I hope guardian angels surround and protect you. There is a way to get your whole life turned for the better.

Answer 5

Don't worry about the gf. When your life is ready for your "b'sherit"--Hebrew for "intended one", God will set her right in front of you.

EVerybody's life is something; no life is "nothin". EVerybody's life has a purpose. You just haven't found yours, yet.

You sound like me about 38 years ago. I can tell you, I finally got my life going in the right direction. Miracles are real. You can experience them.

Is there any way you can get professional help with your anger problem? I'd say that's very mature of you to recognize you even HAVE a problem. Most people would be in denial, and/or blame their problems on others, instead of recognizing it as their own problem. Congratulations! That, in itself says a LOT for you!

You say the "ONly thing you're good for is getting people to better lives..." Don't you realize that's exactly what your purpose is here? God doesn't have eyes, ears, hands, arms, etc., but we do. We are to be, those, of Him, for others. He uses us to help His other loved ones. That's the greatest thing you COULD be good for. That puts you, almost, right up there with the great Divine Educators from God; such as Krishna, Moses, Buddha, Jesus, Muhammad and Baha'u'llah! If you are doing that, you are doing exACTly what you were created to do.

If your life goes down, it's because you're not being as good to yourself as you are to those around you. You must help yourself to a better life, as well. You've already got part of the program (serving others), now you've just got to learn the rest; then, your life will start going up.

In the first place; if you're being anyone else's rug, to wipe their feet on, stop it right now. You are made in the spiritual (not physical) image of God. Why would you let anyone misuse you? If they do, it's not THEIR fault if YOU ALLOW them to DO it.

Try to see yourself as one soul, along with everyone you know (and don't know), in many bodies. Treat yourself and everyone you meet with the utmost love, respect and dignity. You are all made in the spiritual image of God. If/when you start treating No. 1 (you) better, you'll begin attracting to yourself more caring, less selfish, self-centered people; and/or those, already, in your life will begin to change their attitudes toward you; and, toward themselves due to your example.

Believe me, your life is not nothing. Not to me, at least, and to many more people than you can imagine.

If anything I've said has helped in any small way, and you want to communicate with me, you may do so at the email address below.

Many years ago, I felt as you do; fortunately, I came across my source listed below. It changed everything. Perhaps it can for you, too.

Know that you are in my prayers.

I hope to hear from you.

Sometimes, we all just need someone to hold our hand on this journey. Sometimes others are strong for us; and sometimes we can be the strength for others. But, please, don't try to walk it alone. It's impossible to do it alone.

Hang in there, Babe. Let me know if I can help.

Answer 6

we all go through this at some point in time. its tough i know. even people who YOU think have it all--clothes, money, women/men, glamour, etc. even THEY have problems. theres always gonna be someone better than you but at the same time theres gona be someone worse off than you. think of the starving kids in africa, the homeless in our streets, the people in war torn countries, people who disappear without a trace, people robbed of their dignity, assets, and lives. THOSE people suffer. trust me. even if you dont think u have, you made a difference in someones life. even when u feel like the whole world is crashing down and theres nothing else that can go wrong, you WILL get through it.

my sister for example was in a bad relationship where her husband would beat her up WHILE she was pregnant. shed have blood gushing out of her ears, marks all over her body. he had a steel plate in his wrist when they reconstructed it. after all that she still made it. shes now working at a bank and enjoying life with her daughter. but all that wasnt handed to her. she fought through it. you can too. i never told anyone who knows me as a friend but ive thought of ending it too. its not worth it man.

2 years ago a guy that went to my school killed himself. i went to his funeral even though i didnt know him. i know of alot more people that did the same. he did it because supposedly he didnt have any friends. not true. there wasnt an empty seat in there. bottom line, youll make a difference in this world. whether its helping someone cross the street, smiling at someone in a crappy mood, or ending uo curing cancer, you will.

Answer 7

because you sound depressed. and suicide is, sorry, a cowards way out. i Know your not a coward, so think about solutions bry. they make medication for whatever is wrong with you right now, like zoloft, paxil, and being clinically diagnosed with depression or anxiety means you have an imbalance in your brain. medication Does help! so go to the doctor, and don't think about suicide again plz?

Answer 8

sad story,my friend..,dont let another use u..,if you would do something for another,it should be out of your free will,not because another takes advantage of you.
helping another is a good thing,but it schould not be forced upon.
anyway..dont get pissed off either,its a waiste of energy..,if you would use that energy to get your life better,man that would give you a real boost...:-).
anger builds up massive energy..,u can use that energy much better to improve you self..

Answer 9

If this question is for real, then the answer is -

You're depressed. Get help as soon as possible, please.

If this question is not for real - If you're joking around, then I wish you wouldn't. Many people suffer from depression. Many people attempt suicide. Many people succeed. It's not funny. It's sad.

Answer 10

Dude, there are a lot of people out there like that - desperate for something real in this matrix world of materialism and empty promises.
This world is full of lies - from the time we can understand things that are going on around us, we hear lies coming from TV, radio, magazines, our friends, even our parents and we begin to base our self-worth on whether we have a girlfriend or whether we have this or have that, but our true worth comes from the fact that God created us and cares for us. God loves us so much that He sent His only son, Jesus, to die for us so we can have True Life. The world is FULL of deception aimed at getting us to believe that our value is based on what other people think of us rather than what God thinks of us. God is crazy about you and you can't change His mind.
Here is one of Jesus' famous stories about, among other things, God's amazing love for us.

There was a man who had two sons. The younger one said to his father, "Father, give me my share of the estate." So he divided his property between them. Not long after that, the younger son got together all he had, set off for a distant country and there squandered his wealth in wild living.
After he had spent everything, there was a severe famine in that whole country, and he began to be in need. So he went and hired himself out to a citizen of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He longed to fill his stomach with the pods that the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything. When he came to his senses, he said, "How many of my father's hired men have food to spare, and here I am starving to death! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired men." So he got up and went to his father.
But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him. The son said to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son." But the father said to his servants, "Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let's have a feast and celebrate. For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found." So they began to celebrate.
Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. "Your brother has come," he replied, "and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound." The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, "Look! All these years I've been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!" "My son," the father said, "you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found." (Luke 15:11-32)

Once you realize God loves you, you can ask Him for help. It is very likely that He will show you that you've been going in the wrong direction (obviously since there is so little Life in your life - God wants to lead you towards LIFE. Jesus said "I am the way, the Truth and the Life") and you will need to turn away from certain things in your life that are pulling you towards that pit. All of the deceptions in the world are to get us to hold onto LIES that drag us down to the pit. God will help you let go of these lies and begin to hold onto Him and He will set you up on higher ground. Good luck, brother...Start reading the Bible - the Gospels are a great place to start - ask God each time before reading them to lead you toward His true life. Its not about religion, its about LIFE.
Peace,
Nate