Describe / list (at least 5) traits / qualities you look for in a potential partner / boyfriend. Arrange your answers from most important to the least important.
2006-08-11 19:36:06 · 14 answers · asked by Drew 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thre is no ideal gay man, but if you ask a fag hag like me it would be:
Sense of style
Has a career, not a job
Has his own money
doesn't drink like a fish
is versatile
2006-08-11 19:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by sansjazz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1.Tall ( at least 6 feet and over)
2.Smart (Im a neurobiology grad student, so I need someone who is mentally capable of having a decent conversation)
3. Affectionate (gotta have that!)
4. Adventurous (I like to travel, and do crazy things. I need someone who has that quality)
5. Understanding (Im the biggest flirt in the world, its in my gene)
6. Stable ( I have my own money, you have your own)
7. Not asking for David Beckham, at least someone who knows how to take care of his body and his look.
PS: I have a boyfriend, We've been together for almost a year now. Not married yet so Im still available
2006-08-11 21:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Beckham613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, the ideal gay man for me, would be comfortable in his own skins. This is more important than any other physical or mental traits. Secondly he would have a keen sense of loyalty, self respect and respect for others. Thirdly, his values on life and others would be on the old adage of: Love your self as you love your neighbor. Fourthly, a physical attraction is a plus. Lastly, a mutual chemistry attraction for each other would make him ideal.
2006-08-11 23:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I somewhat have had this comparable talk with my gay son. He despairs of finding somebody with whom a faithful relationship is achieveable. He needs long term dedication and intimacy, yet has yet to come across every person interior the gay community that has an identical want. possibly that's by using fact as quickly as a gay guy does finally settle with yet another in a extra or much less everlasting relationship, they form of drop out of the image. Their long term ties are actually not so obvious to commentary, leaving in basic terms those with a promiscuous nature and an lack of ability to commit on the scene. i don't know for confident, neither does my son. I stay in consistent desire that as he passes into extra mature communities, he will discover somebody with an identical want for long term intimacy...i could hate to think of of him being on my own all his existence.
2016-10-01 23:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Loving
2) Honest
3) Sincere
4) Sense of humor
5) Looks
2006-08-12 00:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Finally home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideal??
Um..one that doesnt follow the "Fag" fashions of sex..hipness...and whatever other Mores' that the rest follow.
My man would be an individual..and would appreciate that in others..and in his partner.
Its difficult in this day and age...The Modern Homosexual is constantly being made to follow in the footsteps of others that define what it is to be homosexual..thus creating cookie-cutter clones of themselves...its sad really.
2006-08-11 19:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by G-Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ideal gay man is the one who is good and nice gay man.
2006-08-11 19:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by margie38us j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In no particular order:
Masculenity
Comfortable with themselves
Secure with themselves
Good sense of morales
Caring
Won't deal with bullshit kind of attitude
2006-08-12 10:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to be committed to me, very caring, honest, open minded, and tolerant. Does he exist? I sure hope so
2006-08-12 05:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have to be funny, hot, sweet, there for me whenever, and have a nice gay friendly family since mine isn't. :)
they must be romantic too.. love romanticness lol. :)
2006-08-11 19:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Me lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋