2006-08-11 19:31:13 · 27 answers · asked by composure 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
This happened to me once, about 12 years ago.... I still walked... it comes down to you needing to do what is right for you. It doesnt mean you are cold and callous, but obviously if you were already trying to leave this person, then things were not working anyway.... if you stayed out of guilt and fear... what basis is that for a relationship? It would only deteriorate further... and who is to say that they would not still commit suicide (if they really meant it, not just used that as a ploy to keep you, as my ex did) whilst you were still in the relationship 5 years down the track?
You are responsible for you.... not the other persons actions.
2006-08-11 19:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by spinksy2 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told, I don't know. The person could be an abuser, so there are always those consequences. Also if I left the person and they did commit suicide I would feel awful as heck, especially if it was someone I was once close to. So in a situation like this I don't know, I say you should just get counseling.
God bless. ^_^
2006-08-11 19:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I would make sure to let his friends or family know that they needed to watch him. A relationship based on emotional blackmail isn't the kind of thing I'm up for. In the long run, I'd probably hurt him more emotionally by staying.
2006-08-11 19:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call a suicide hotline and tell them the probelm. tell someone older. go online and search suicide hotlines. don't break up with them until you get help for that person. Call 9-1-1 and tell them that if you break up with that person they will committ suicide and say HELP.
1-800-799-4TTY (4889)
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2006-08-11 19:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by Hestiny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend who was like that he became very possessive with me. and said If I left him he would commit suicide. my dad committed suicide when I was only 9. t had a real affect on me and my mam. if a man did that to me again I would say to him live is for living be grateful for what you have got not what you haven't got.. there is someone out there much worse than you. get help for goodness sake. knowing what I know I would not stand for anyone black mailing me again.
2016-10-14 05:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!
well, does this question imply you WANTED to leave them at this moment? It's not necessarily the reason to leave by itself, but a real good reason to seek some help.
but if you theoretically wanted out of the relationship in the first place, you have to do what you have to do.
Be as humane and caring as possible, and alert the persons friends and family to her unhealthy mental state. But above all, live your life; you cant live theirs for them.
2006-08-11 19:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by rachprime 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not for that reason alone. If you are really concerned it's that serious, talk to the person about getting help, or find someone to tell. If you want to leave this person, do it regardless of the sheisty tricks they might use to guilt-trip you to stay with them. This person might just be insecure.
2006-08-11 19:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by kookie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, I couldn't be with someone so unstable and needy. Call a suicide hot line for tips on how to break it off and do it quickly.
You're not responsible for someone Else's actions, remember that and good luck.
2006-08-11 19:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by answer annie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. Usually people that want to committ dont say anything.
2006-08-11 19:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by Karley W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, you does no longer be helping/hurting him by utilising shifting out and being on your individual. It feels like he's greater disenchanted approximately your stepmom being a b****y gold digger than being on my own. despite the fact that, in the previous you progression out it can be a reliable concept to get your dad some professional help. whilst somebody threatens to commit suicide, they could consult from somebody. My Uncle on no account talked to all and sundry approximately his problems, and he ended up killing himself. additionally you may communicate on your dad in the previous you progression out to make optimistic he nonetheless helps your determination. If he would not and you nonetheless bypass away, it maypersistent him over the part. different than that, shifting out is in all threat the final factor you're able to do. It seems such as you have various problems at domicile, and it extremely is in all threat greater helpful for you mentally in case you went out on your individual. reliable success which comprise your new life! I desire you and your dad the final.
2016-12-17 09:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋