even though i am married (no kids) i had an arranged marriage, but now i am madly in love with this guy who is few yrs younger. he loves me too. infact he was the one who iniated this relationship last year (we were good friends since few years)
i cant divorce my husband n go live with my boyfriend bcoz my husband is financially doing well and takes care of my needs properly, whereas my bf is just working in a call centre. but i cant forget my bf or leave him coz hes just stuck in my mind always even though hes shifted to another city. any advice plz? no rude comments plz coz this is a serious question.
2006-08-11 19:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have to follow your ♥
don't stay with someone you don't luv just cuz he is financially stable...
don't live with out the one you truely luv...
if you are witht he one you luv then you will be truly happy.
but being with out the one you truly luv you just live unhappy....and he will never leave your mind.
Belive me.
i have been this one guys friend for almost 6yrs and i luv him...he has loved me since we met...we went out for a month....but now we aren't together..but we still luv eachother...he is with her...and im single....there are tons of happy moments in my life but the best moments of my life are when im with him...even though we aren't together...but one day we will be....just not now....but we are still friends.....
but you you are married...you are prolly hurting bcuz you aren't with your luv..but remember you are also hurting your husband...i say you should just talk to you husband...and finally you can go be with your true luv.... Good Luck. follow your ♥...no matter where your ♥ takes you to...just keep following...your heart is the only thing that knows what is true....
2006-08-11 19:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy in your marriage, get out of it. It makes you sound cheap if you stay in a loveless marriage simply for the financial benefits. Do your poor husband a favor.
2006-08-12 02:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by worldwise1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are in love if you are sexually/mentally satisfied by your husband but if you are not sexually/mentally satisfied with your husband then I would like to say this relationship is only because to satisfy a married woman needs....
If I am wrong then please do not spoil 3 lifes. Simply give divorse to your husband and marry that guy..
what do you think? BE POSITIVE...
2006-08-12 03:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by JAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can Talk to your husband if he loves you..If he's Not,you can say to him your true feeling..say him the whole truth and say that you need to divorce..you can marry your BF..and happily if you had do it.
2006-08-12 02:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur married thats against the law just forget about him or ur husband will sue you in court for adultery wait are u a filipina just asking
2006-08-12 02:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that since you are already committed to someone you should for get about the boyfriend unless he is that special some one.
2006-08-12 02:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by alyssa k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they only thing that matters is what makes you happy. If you're happy with you're boyfriend go with him and if ur happy with you're husband stay with him. You can't have both
2006-08-12 02:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by bigpimpin45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt, follow your heart
2006-08-12 02:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia Maer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you aren't wedded to your beloved.
2006-08-12 02:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get self-esteem training
2006-08-12 03:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋