I've been in a relationship for the past 3 years and things are quite good between us.I just wanted to know is it normal to be slightly jealous when my male best friend is starting to get interested in a girl he knows, or is this some thing typical? Im not jealous because i want to be with him it just seems like im disapointed why?
2006-08-11 19:05:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe ur jelous because ur afraid that the girl that ur best friend is interested in will kinda take his friendship away from you. Maybe that girl isn't good enough for him in ur eyes. It sorta like ur a parent and want the best for ur son/daughter. But it seems like you'll never be satisfied with who he's with. But try to ask yourself...."if my best girl friend was interested in a new guy, would I get jelous?" This might let u know ur true feelings. Good luck.
2006-08-11 19:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Marina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in the relationship with someone? Being jealous with someone is normall. You are jealous because there is a girl your male best friend is interested in. Hope you don't mind if I ask, do you like your male best friend? Because in my opinion you do like him. Why will you be jealous, I mean he is just your best friend right? I you are falling in love with him, let him know while your best friend is not asking that girl yet. I know you're thinking maybe the relationship you guys have will get ruined because you told him that you feel something for him and you feel jealous. What's important is that now he knows what you feel. Who knows maybe feels the same.
Hey let me know what happens next alright!
2006-08-11 19:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by fashion_model 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! This is completely normal. He's your best friend.. And although you have a boyfriend, you may have some hidden feelings for this guy that you've never concidered before. But seeing as things are going great w/your b/f the other thing could be that this guy is your BEST FRIEND and you dont' want any silly stupid girl breaking his heart. He could be like your brother, in that sense. You're protective of him, which is nice. Don't worry about it. But really, you may want to have a nice cup of tea and think about how you REALLY feel about this guy, boyfriend or not.
2006-08-11 19:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can call it jealousy really, sounds like you may have some reservations on the girl he is getting interested in and that is why you are disappointed which is normal if you have been friends for 3 yrs. But, to you may have alittle more interest in him than you think you do and that is why you feel the jealousy. Now, you will say NOOOOOOO it is not like that but stop and think about it for a sec and you will see what I am getting at.
2006-08-11 19:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by hwyshoney_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that like being slightly pregnant?. You are not slightly, partially, or even kind of.
You are jealous.
Jealousy in any form is not ok.
He's your steady's best friend and you are in a relationship.
Being disappointed because he is interested in someone else is not ok. Be honest with yourself about the way you feel .
2006-08-11 19:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a female in a good relationshipbut dont like it if ur male friends go out wid other girls? es dats compleatly strange n very unfair. ur frnz have der own lives and a right to live it. you have no right to mess wid them.
better be carefull dear and deciede right now do you want frnz who r happy calling u a friend n be der for u. or u want make dem run away from u by acting possessive?
2006-08-11 19:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend is male it is your job to help him meet women, same as any of his other friends. Regardless, it is normal to be slightly jealous when any of your friends wants to spend time with someone other than you.
2006-08-11 19:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by yearrgh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear DibbY DeE
I dont think that its your right to be jealous in that case , on the contrary you should be happy for him and supporting as much as you can coz you tasted how great to be with some one and you want you best frnd to try it too so dear am sorry but its not OK this time ...
♥
2006-08-11 19:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. I suppose it's just natural to be jealous of things from time to time. Perhaps you're just very possessive with him. (And I don't mean that in a bad way.) What's most important is how much you let these feelings of jealous affect you and more importantly your relationship with him.
2006-08-11 19:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is similar to when my brother started dating. It almost in a non sick way feels like we are being replaced. It's hurtful and yet, we love our brothers and friends and we should want them to be happy. And it is hard because we are use to being the one they talk to about things. Now they will be talking with "the other girl" instead of us. Don't worry. That beginning phase wears out and he'll still be your friend. Good luck to you and God bless!
2006-08-11 19:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋