This man is 37. I am 24. He has 3 kids and has been married for 12 years. I have only talked to him on the phone but we talked every day at work. His job and my job were closely related. It started out as just a polite friendly professional relationship. then he started making little comments and I started picking up on this and started feeling the attraction. at this point we still havent met but have discussed it many times and we know eachother really well. he no longer works in his dept, but he still calls me to "catch up" i have really strong feelings but dont know is his are the same
2006-08-11 18:49:43 · 10 answers · asked by sheerah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he takes up with you while he's still married, he isn't anyone you would want in the long term. Once a cheat, always a cheat. If he cheats with you, and it "works out" for you and he leaves her, at least you know what you can expect out of your relationship with him.
2006-08-11 18:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very unlikely to work out. The usual situation would be the man looking for a girl to have fun with on the side. It's very common for a man to tell a woman he will leave his wife, but that does not happen often.
If you are OK with having a casual fling with the guy, and do not care what effect it may have on his wife and children, they by all means, full speed ahead. If you do not want to put his family at risk, don't get invovlved. If you think you might feel guilty, don't get involved.
2006-08-12 01:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bright Future Penguin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as the two of you are having a fantasy affair. The fantasy can't do all that much harm, but to make it a reality might be damaging to everyone concerned. Step away from dreamland and look for real love in the real world. Good luck.
2006-08-12 02:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by expatturk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it will definitely not work out, first of all he is married and from the start and in any way you look at it, the relationship is not good at all. Try to find someone who is not married and someone who can give back 100% the love you will give to him...like me!
2006-08-12 01:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Charles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it girl! He will always stay by her side and his kids. He will enjoy having sex with you cuz it'll be different and kinky but you will always feel like a skank and you will be! Don't be a home-wrecker- thinks of his kids and his poor wife.
2006-08-12 02:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by liberalthinktank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, he does not want a serious relationship with you he is just after a little fun otherwise he wouldn't still be with his wife!!!!!!! Find your own man.
2006-08-12 01:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by mickeymaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things rarely work. Find a new guy. Would you want this to happen to you?
2006-08-12 02:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are talking about me, ;)
but i am 43 and she is 24
are you?
2006-08-13 12:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by tours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no- if he cheats WITH you- he'll cheat ON you!
2006-08-12 01:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by mominshoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG....................get your own man not this loser.
2006-08-12 01:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋