I have a bad reputation for lying and being an asshole to people and I tend to talk bad about my true friends. I guess everyone thinks I'm a "wannabe popular guy",so no one wants to be friends with me because they think I'm just some wannabe; but I changed and now that I'm going into High School how can people realize that I'm different now and how do I make new friends?
2006-08-11 18:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by hollisterdudee91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well the answer is so easy for me but will be the hardest thing you ever do in your life.....You have to make the effort and stick it out no matter what. You simply use these simple little phrases. "I am sorry if I hurt or upset you" "Please forgive me " "Just give me another chance to show you that I am not the person I used to be" . You are a teenager and that makes it hard because I know how kids are these days. It is never easy to fix hurting peoples feeling...no matter if you are young or old. I am sure you will be go through alot before you get positive results but remember this....keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. BE YOURSELF!! All too often kids these days forget they don't have to be like everyone else. stop being a clone and just be yourself but I can tell you this much.....you MUST LOVE YOURSELF if you want people to love you in return. Try starting with your family first...show them how you have changed the rest will fall in place. good luck
2006-08-11 18:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go make friends with the most unpopular people in your school. You might try giving them a gift or some art something that means alot to you. Just be there for them and try your best to be a friend thats all it takes. People will notice if you have changed by the actions you make. It shouldnt be about making friends so much as it should be about finding self acceptance everything will flow from there. imo
2006-08-11 18:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by magpiesmn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear ..
Am sure that you are changed but you need to realize too that the 1st impression lasts and its not easy to change that PPL think in a day so here is the deal let them see the new you, you know deeds have more effect on PPL that words and show your smile to every one help as many PPL as u can and with time you will see the different
2006-08-11 19:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really changed, I'm sure they will notice the change in you and sooner or later they will start to accept you as a friend. Now that you are going to high school and for sure you will meet new acquaintances show them the new and friendly you.
2006-08-11 18:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Charles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u will have to start all at the beggining and make new friends and high school is so much different just dont lie to u new friends and dont be a asshole
2006-08-11 18:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your a loner i can't help you. if you do have friends be nice to ur friends an have them say how much you changed. i really don't know why you trashed talked ur friends but you should of never in the first place it's wrong
2006-08-11 18:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't do all the things that u used 2 do and start over.... ill be ur friend if u like?
2006-08-11 19:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being consistent in your behaviour.actions speak louder than words!
2006-08-11 18:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try too hard, just be yourself, seriously, and people will get it. it really works
2006-08-11 18:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to another school far away. start fresh there.
2006-08-11 19:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by queen . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋