I broke it off with him and she keeps apoligizing. should i believe her or not
2006-08-11 18:29:50 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is no friend if she did this to you. I would end it with both of them
2006-08-11 18:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a really good friend then i don't think you should let a boy come between you. Forgive but do not forget just be careful don't let her be alon with future bf's. If you have a strong feeling that she might do this again or you feel that this has hurt your friendship that badly then well do what you have to do.
2006-08-12 02:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kaitsurinu-chan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pissed with both of them, that is the ultimate betrayal for a female. I'm sorry, I'd eventually forgive them, but will never forget. What is she sorry about, she knew he was my boyfriend and if she was my friend, no matter how she felt about him, she wouldn't have messed with him and although people say men will be men but that's your girl, he's wrong too. That's a trust and a loyalty issue with me, i just couldn't be friends with her again because i couldn't trust her, especially around a new boyfriend. It has nothing to do with him, as much as it has everything to do with her being your friend. Men come and go but friends should be sacred and obviously, she wasn't your friend. How can you deal with someone who betrayed your trust in them? Wrong is wrong, period!
2006-08-12 01:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lene B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They BOTH lied to you, and did things behind your back. That is not a friend at all. ~leave your friend as well. If she trys very hard to still be your friend, then that would be ok. I would give my best friend a 2nd chance. But she might just try to take ALL your future boyfriends. Watch out.
2006-08-12 01:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by dtammyus♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should b mad at ur bf cause he made a comitment when u became bf and gf but u should not 4 give her cause she is ur best friend and she should never do that to u
2006-08-12 01:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in somewhat of a similar situation, but she was just female I was cool with because she was my boyfriend's best friends girl. But we all hung out for years I am talking 11 years...
Both!!!
They knew the relationship you had and they didn't acknowledge it and disrespected you to the fullest.
Your boyfriend disrespected you as his woman
and Friend as your friend.
Both are to blame, there are no excuses for it.
If you didn't know her then you blame your man, but cut them both off!!
2006-08-12 01:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point, if I were you, I would treat them like they did not exist. When you see them, they are air, when you hear them, they are speaking a foreign language. They simply do not exist. A person who has friends like this, needs no enemies.
2006-08-13 01:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are meant to be forever........give your friend **** and forget your ex. I'd me maddest at my best friend.
2006-08-12 01:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
youre best frend coz duhhh......
how can you call someone your best friend if shes messing around with youre boyfriend..i could just rip her eyes out by now
if i were you..
2006-08-12 01:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~Vegan~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it should be the same because if you were mad at your boyfriend more it wouldnt make sense cause your boyfriend didnt mess around by himself she messed around with him.and if u were mad at your best friend more it wouldnt make sense because she didnt mess around by herself in other words they messed around w/each other so u should be mad at both of them the same.
2006-08-12 01:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Varsity =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋