2006-08-11 18:03:09 · 10 answers · asked by alyssa plus mike = love for life 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
Some women want the "white picket fence" and a "Prince Charming" to go with it. I'm not trying to sound one sided but from a mans prospective "some" women need to learn how to to just be content. Their is no such thing as the perfect. Whatever can go wrong will go wrong. He smokes, he drinks, he swears, he doesnt't console me enough. Try not to mold the guy into what you want him to be. Instead go with him to a ball game in exchange for him taking you to see a chick flix. Trust me with you compromise with the next guy you meet. You'll be surprised how much better things will be then if you flat out get upset.
2006-08-11 18:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by demlimbas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not wish to sound harsh, but perhaps your version of "the right guy" perhaps needs some adjustment. I can tell you my mom found the right guy-she is still happily married to him 19 years later. Apparently so does my aunt-she has 20 years of a good marriage with her.
I am now going to make a guess that I do not wish answered in any way or form. I guess you are either a teenager or a young adult. You have either had or seen some friends have relationships with "good guys" who turned out to be everything but.
It is not your fault, your friends fault, or even the boys' fault. It is the fault of the culture we live in, that says some standards are required or else, but than makes those standards harder and harder to reach without sacrificing something else. For the time, that means sacrificing sincerity, gentility, and appropriate masulinity for overinflated "self-confidence", shallowness, and most importantly, a "hot" body.
The real tragedy in this whole deal is that the right guy is probably the one you will either ignore or treat as just a friend. It is the exciting one who will eventually decide that you are not exciting enough for him.
There is hope though, my mom married a 6'3", 145 pound pencil neck (He has changed). Just look with clear eyes.
2006-08-12 06:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by Gatsby Follower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you found the "right guy" for that moment? Maybe the depth you seek is something you are not yet able to fathom?
I would sincerely suggest that when you think you've found the "right guy" consider this. When do you see yourself in 10 years? Do you see this "person" in the same place as you? If not, you need to keep looking...
2006-08-12 01:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships come and go, that's a part of life so you just have to move on until you find that right guy
2006-08-12 01:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by In love with life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely you had little in common in the first place but were too infatuated to realize it.
Too many relationships start in the middle.
Sex before knowing each other. Totally backwards.
2006-08-12 01:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of times, guys put effort into "winning" you, so to speak. bring you out dining, long walks, flowers. they treat you very gently and kind. but, after a while, it's sad, you are taken for granted and stuck in a relationship of lonliness and meaningless existance with this man.
2006-08-12 02:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you always see him as a "prince charming" and when something arises then the rose glasses come off and you see him for what he really is, and that is why those relationships fail.
2006-08-12 11:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by qtsasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we should listen to our hearts at first....if we did...we probably wouldnt go down that road....as time passes...the truth emerges...9 times out of 10...your heart tells you not to go there...but we do anyway...and we learn!!
2006-08-12 02:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it aint meant to be!
2006-08-12 03:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by beast5320012001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as LOVE
2006-08-12 05:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋