my boyfriend says that i don't say it to him enough. he says i only say it when says it or when he tells me to. i talked to my friends about it and they said that i needed to tell himthat i loved him more often but i just don't know when to. i do love him a lot but i'm afraid i will sound like an idiot if i say it at the wrong time.
2006-08-11 18:01:36 · 13 answers · asked by CrYiNgOnSaTuRdAyNiGhT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Say it when he says it at first and then you'll grow into it.
2006-08-11 18:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK sweetie here's why,,, "YOU DON"T LOVE HIM" and that's OK, you don't throw around the word if you don't mean it, it makes the word cheap and meaningless, do you want it to be cheap and meaningless???? here's what you need to do, let him find a gal that says it back because its what he wants her to so to build him up. and you find a nice young man that really makes your heart pound and you smile like a little girls and then when you feel it in your heart then you say it all you want cause you know you will really mean it. be a smart girl and grow up to be a wise woman not mother to some guy who wants his mothers approval to be in love because thats what your guy wants is to have his ego stroked by you. he's still a boy seeking his mother approval to be in love. amn man know when he is in love and knows that its not just something you say its something you do.....
ps, hint to you, woman are suposed to be the ones who need to be told "i love you" all the time because thats a woman trait, you know everything has a feeling and a meaning and talking all about them, guys want to watch the game with the guys and eat pizza and have fun you know do manly stuff, to a guy if there wife is there heating up the pizza and not bitchingg about the guys being there in the first place then he figures that she realy loves him enough to let him be the man he is because as we all know the only way to a mans heart is to feed him *** him and don't nagg him to death with women crap that he could not fix or do anything about anyways even if you asked him to. in short, women are more mental and emotional and man , well just hug him and give him a big'ol kiss and he'llknow you love him or at least he'll think you want sex with him in either case it means the same thing......
2006-08-12 01:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well after i kiss my bf i look into his eyes and say i love u babe or jsut i love u. text him and be like hey how r u or w/e and say ilycant wait to c u today when u say goodbye say ily jsut while sitting there on ur bed or couch or where ever be like know what ily then smile and give him a kiss then smile and look back at the tv or w/e when u think u want to say it go for it theres really never a wrong time to show ur love.
2006-08-12 01:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by SMILES:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to tell him alot, but i think that u will say it at the right time, try saying i love u after yall make out for awhile. and if u dont love him dont tell him that. and dont worry about acting like an idiot infront of guys, he probly wont even notice, girls are more aware of what goes on than guys do
2006-08-12 01:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by wolfmdogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he WANTS you to say it. So I wouldnt worry about saying it at the wrong time. It sounds like you two have good communication so Im sure if you feel like you say it at the wrong time, he will let you know.... good luck
2006-08-12 01:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by rzn4kdz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing says I love you like a BJ and a cup of coffee in the morning.
2006-08-12 01:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a girl at a fest and fell in love and i told her so and she still flirted with me. At another fest i was hooked with a girl and told her i loved her even though i just met her and she said, "No you don't" but appreciated it anyway. I like bringing love into it because love is not a deep mystical thing. If you feel it it's there so share it.
2006-08-12 01:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Hymn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
der is no wrong time trust me. my boyfriend will b in the middle of tellin me something and i wud just be like i luv u more and then he wud say no i do and blah blah. der is never a wrong time in tellin someone u luv them.
2006-08-12 01:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend he sounds like a needy little noob and that girls like secure masculine guys...not babies.
2006-08-12 01:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by Edward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it when ever you feel like it, i don't think there is a wrong time to say it.and try to beat him to it, like if you know hes going to say it, say it first
2006-08-12 01:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋