I am a week away from my due date and for the past 3 months, my boyfriend hasn't wanted much to do with me. Is this normal, or maybe he just doesn't find pregnancy attractive?
2006-08-11 17:55:47 · 9 answers · asked by x00_lucky_00x 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
can't say ive ever had a pregnant wife/girlfriend/other, as im only 13.
I recently saw an ad on tv, where a woman comes out of the bathroom with a test strip and shows her boyfriend/husband/other, who immediately acts overjoyed, but really, he's seeing in his head basically everything fun in his life go down a giant drain.
Maybe your boyfriend is feeling that a baby would take your attention away from him, and is so paying little attention to you, in a fruitless attempt to make you feel how he thinks he will feel.
What he doesn't understand is,
raising a child is not taking your attention away from him completely, it is taking your and his attention to the baby.
It is bringing new life to where old once was,
growing grass where once there was dessert.
It is bringing light into a fading darkness,
putting new pieces on the bridge of life where the old have fallen into the great sea of the beyond.
I really hope you can make sense of this.
Happy early birthday!!
Only in the year of a new child can a women have 2 birthdays!
-Jeremie R
PS.
if any part of this nonsensical answer didn't make sense to you,
click on my name and on my profile page there is an email link!!!
2006-08-11 18:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremie R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have seen some VERY attractive pregnant women. I gave my good buddy a really hard time because he had the hottest pregnant wife, I've ever seen. He laughed and agreed. I've also had a good friend of mine that was pregnant, and she was absolutely the most miserable person to be around. She acted like she hated guys, and stopped caring what she looked like.
If you husband has lost an interest in you... it may be due to your pregnancy. On the other hand it may be due to you not taking the time to make yourself look nice (ITS ONLY A GUESS!)? Perhaps due to your pregnancy, you are a bit more demanding, and he just doesn't like it? Guys aren't always just sex macines, and they sometimes do need to be "in the mood". If you are being especially needy during your pregnancy... it might be turning him off.
Then again....you are carrying his child..so it could just be you're pregnant. Either way, I wish you the best and hope you guys work it out. You only have another week to go...so I'm sure you can make it!
P.S. I heard having sex is a great way to induce labor. My good buddy did it with his hot wife.... (that lucky bastard!)...and it worked! Maybe you can talk him into it?
2006-08-11 18:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I found my wife very attractive when she was pregnant, but every man has their own preferences. It could be that he is just uncomfortable with the thoughts of hurting the baby when it comes to being intimate or, if this is the first, just unsure of what all he can do with you other than just sit around the house since you are so close to your date. Congratulations on the baby, and the best of luck to the both of you.
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2016-05-18 05:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We males are genetically programmed to find pregnant women attractive. Pregnant women are fertile women, and men who are attracted to them have always had a statistically better chance of passing on their genes.
We also tend to stick around, and in primitive times protected the women while they were relatively vulnerable.
2006-08-11 18:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jay S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal ... he just doesn't want to hurt the baby ... that makes him a pretty good guy, who probably cares for you too.
After the baby is born he'll probably f your brains out.
I did the same thing when my daughter was born. OK ?
2006-08-11 18:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jonnie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex loved pregnant woman... I know because he cheated on me with them.
Its not attractive to me, but he liked the motherhoodliness and the glow it gives them...
2006-08-11 17:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband found me sexy, but the closer my due date came the more worried he was that it would hurt the baby.
2006-08-11 18:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Pinky S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ive seen some hot pregnant woman but i guess dats y there pregnant
2006-08-11 18:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by who 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋