i had this friend..we had a misunderstanding last year..it was my fault..since then we dont talk to each other anymore..i still want to be his friend but i assume dat he's happy wid his new friends ryt now..my other friend keeps telling me to go and talk to him but i dont wanna coz im afraid dat he wud tell me he doesnt want me as his friend anymore..wat shud i do???i want serious answers pls...
2006-08-11 17:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by ameisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and i also realise recently dat he's my true friend..
2006-08-11 17:53:28 · update #1
you will regret it for the reast of your life if you dont make the innitiative to make things better between the two of yu, and you wil always feel guilty that it was your fault the two of you arent friends anymore. go do it talk to him, even if he does reject you, all his friends will see that his is a jackass to treat such a asweet innocent girl in such a rude ashole manner!
2006-08-11 17:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ale[x]andra Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a disagreement with someone, especially someone that you care about, you should always try to talk to them about it. Alot of times, we think people are still angry with us and we're the ones still harboring anger. Call him, write him a letter, or go see him, good friends are hard to come by, don't let him slip away and more importantly, if you go to him and he doesn't forgive you or want to be your friend anymore, it's ok, you did what you were supposed to do and you can't help how he feels. Be the bigger person...obviously this is something that's been bothering you, so get it off your chest and just do it. Good Luck!
2006-08-11 17:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lene B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say talk to him. Since it has been a whole year since your "misunderstanding" he has time to calm down about the arguement, and forgive and forget. And think about it this way, if he dose say he still dosen't want to be freinds with you, you are not loosing anything since you aren't freinds now. The only thing you can do is gain so go for it. Besides, if he still dosen't want to be your friend after all this time, hes probably a jerk. (sorry if you took that last statement the wrong way, I don't mean to judge anyone I don't know)
2006-08-11 17:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Micheller♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him, but if he is wlling to listen to you , then you got a start. But someone has to break the ice. Just ask him how things have been and you miss seeing him . Good Luck Pem
2006-08-11 17:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you want him as a friend but your scared to talk to him in case he doesnt wnat to be your friend? you will never find that out if you dont talk to him! maybe if you got his email, you could write him something. its less confrontational for both of you and you can see how he feels first before you actually talk to him. if you dont have his email your gonna have to talk to him! goodluck
2006-08-11 17:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just appologise and tell that you are sorry for what had happened last year.if he doesn't understand you then he is not fit to be your friend.and one more thing just try telling this to him once if he doesn't listen to you then try talking to him twice or thrice.ok
ALL THE BEST
2006-08-11 17:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by gouls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way that u will know if he still wants to be your friend is if you talk to him and see what happens.
2006-08-11 17:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach him you need to find out if he still wants to be your friend or not. If you dont it will be hard for you to move one to a new friendship.
2006-08-11 17:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by NICE-1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the on;y thing you can do is talk to him. Anything else would keep you guessing.
2006-08-11 17:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him dah?
2006-08-11 17:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋