That if we stopped taking a few months ago and never called each other, than, the relationship is over. Can you explain to me why he keeps driving around my house and I keep receiving unavailable number calls. We were really in love (when you get to a certain age you know that) but we made mistakes that took a toll on our relationship. We both have kids and he doesn’t have the character to give things and people their place; his life is governed by his ex-wife. Every decision he makes has to do whit whatever move she makes; that was our mayor problem. She made things impossible for us. So much so that she threw her daughter out of her house, so that the girl had to move in with her dad and we didn’t have any privacy.
Sometimes I wish to get back together and at other times I think I’m better off by my self. But the bottom line is that I can’t stop thinking about him. So going back to the question, he keeps coming around but won’t come to my
2006-08-11 16:55:03 · 11 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
door or wont give me a straight forward call? What do you think is going on?
2006-08-11 16:58:34 · update #1
he stil loves you call him
2006-08-11 16:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,this must be tough on you,but like my sis,
she's been through this before also,and there
are just some things I don't have an answer
for. It's easy to say let go,or get rid of him/ or
her,but the heart knows what it feels and what
it wants. It's hard to choose between right &
wrong sometimes. My sister was with an
abuser this last time,and she needs so much
help,and she's far away from the family in
CA.
Follow you heart is all I can really tell you,
and trust your gutt feelings.
If he is verbally abusive or overly critical of
you,then you shouldn't take him back any
more because many people with lots of
experience say it'll get alot worse!!!
If he's good to you most of the time,then
take it from there. If your self esteem and
confidence aren't being damaged,then
maybe he deserves another chance?
Best wishes to you for a happy out come!
2006-08-12 00:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say move on girl! If he still can make the priorities in his life.
I believe both you are in love. I hope both of you are not married to each other yet. Because if you do, it will be a little for you to get out of the relationship.
So what if you have asked for a break out and he keeps coming to your house? As long as he still let his ex wife runs his life and making decisions around her, you will never have the peace you want. He is very indecisive man. He wants to be with you yet he can't let go of the control of his ex. He could still habour feelings for her hence she still has such a pull on him. There is no happiness when you are with an indecisive man.
We only live once. Treat yourself better and be fair to yourself. Leave him and move on. Loving each other does not mean it will give you a blissful relationship. Love breaks two hearts together but there are other factors to make it a blissful union. E.g. understanding of each other, priorities in live, consideraton for each other. Other than being in love with you, what has he done to the union work? His priorities is not you.
You will have the heartache if you continue this relationship.
He has to make a decision where his priorities are and then you decide.
2006-08-12 00:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is kinda creepin me out. But if you truly love him and left of good terms, call him up. If however you left in a huff & destroyed his property, call the cops. lol. JK. You have to realize the child you both with be raising even though not yours, you will help give a better life to. I know what it is like to miss the privacy but you have to take every moment possible with your man. Be it cooking, cleaning, practices, just watching tv together. That is now your privacy, except in the bedroom here and there.
2006-08-12 00:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by Littlefoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't come to terms and can't stand someone else to have you. It's not going to change till he does move on. May strange car in drive (can Be just that) will make him come to terms or call it over. If he causes you no problems leave it, if so stalking laws are there to protect you. Good luck
2006-08-12 00:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is causing complications in your life and running around like a little boy hiding from you, then your not worth it. He needs to be a man, suck it up and confront you for cripe sakes! You are most likly better off on your own. ps. your not even old enough to give up on yourself. There are tons of people out their that im sure would love to be with you
2006-08-11 23:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ale[x]andra Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant beleive that you were disgruntled about his daughter staying with him. every kid is allowed their parents whether seperate or together. if u look at her as an invasion of privacy why should her mom be denied the privacy?. If u love him its knowing who he is and accepting the whole package or you will never be happy... with anyone
2006-08-12 00:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by agonychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody got to make the first move so if you still love him girl get out there and stop that man before it to late.Good luck
2006-08-12 00:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a stalker
2006-08-11 23:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by jyd9999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's stalking u and maybe he still loves u :]
2006-08-12 00:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by joyceeh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋