How do you get your boyfriend to reveal skeletons in the closet that you know about but he still deny?

Question

I know that he cheat on me with this one girl about 3yrs ago and know all the details but he still wont come to the table .should I still live with this cause i feel like it keeps me from growing in my relationship.everytimje I talk to him about it I get the same answer.please help I will rate you answer the best if I can get some good advice i've been living with this for 2yrs. thanks

Answer 1

first & foremost, inspite of knowing that he cheat on u with a girl, u r still with him....this shows that u love ur guy and u dont want to loose him. I think u shld try to know if he too loves u or he is with u for the sake of just being with u. if u find him to be serious with u and if that episode was a mistake then i think both of u need to understand that love is something very deep. love is all about dedication, trust and faith in each other. if u love someone truly, then u need to have trust coz it is the foundation of every relationship.
if utr boy friend is devoted to u and is living upto ur expectations, then u shld not repeatedly force him to disclose abt that girl. coz let the past be bygone. there is no use in thinking abt the past coz the more u think abt it, the more it wld haunt u. some day, may be few years from now, when u both get a little old, then take my word, ur boyfriend will himself tell u. so till then......live life and enjoy

Answer 2

He knows that you know and is feeling like a child being punished when you want him to tell you everything. Stop beating a dead horse, you know and he knows that you know. Either forgive him and try to make this work or just call it quits.

Answer 3

FOR ONE WHERE IS YOUR SELF RESPECT WHY ARE YOU LIVING WITH A GUY THAT CHEATS ON YOU HE WILL NEVER LAY CLAIM TO CHEATING MOVE ON AND FIND A BETTER MATE STOP LIVING IN SIN AND GO TO CHURCH AND READ YOUR BIBLE GOD WILL PROVIDE THE RIGHT MAN FOR YOU

Answer 4

He obviously doesnt care about you because if he did he would want to talk to you about it. If he wants to lie to your face about it dump him. I would. And why would u want to be with a guy who has cheated on you and doesnt even care enough to tell you the truth? hE is a jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If i were you i would curse him out and leave him!

Answer 5

If this is keeping your relationship from growing, it's time to move on. If he can't be honest with you, he doesn't truely love you.