well my friend told me that one of our friends likes me, and i can tell he does by the way he acts around me, i know he liked me but he wont tell me. what should i do?
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2006-08-11 16:24:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is either afraid to be rejected or afraid he will lose u as a friend
i think u should talk to him about it especially if u like him
2006-08-11 16:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try just being yourself without pressuring him for an answer on whether he likes you or not. Accept him for what he appears to want to be with you right now, ( a friend ). Appreciate him as a friend for now and perhaps it will develop into something else. Treat him as you would like to be treated, respect his privacy. Sometimes when we are blatantly straightforward, we can be rude. Being tactful in what we say inspires others to our liking. I mean to be careful in our use of words, courteous, respectful, and sincere words will make him want to know you better. When he feels like you are honest and that he can believe you, he will be more likely to accept and identify with you. The more you will succeed in influencing him to you. Good friendship sweetie.
2006-08-11 23:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See i kinda now how you feel, im in love with my best friend and he found out and we have been so much closer now it really made and friend ship grow and we're thinking bout geting together and maybe you should give your friend a chance cuz you never know he could end up being the guy you could spend the rest of your life with and hey you already now how he is so it could work out!
2006-08-11 23:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bailey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REMEMBER never freak out!!!!! just act normal like nothing ever happened like you never knew. I know it might feel weird because that is you friend but you do not want this mess to rewen your friendship so just forget about it.
2006-08-11 23:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like him as well then consider asking him out and going for it. If you don't like him that way them jsut let things be. If his actions are bothing you then have a chat with him and explain to him that you jsut wanna be friends and that he needs to chill out.
2006-08-11 23:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get one of your friends to say she's going with you and him and go out to the movies, and tell your freind to cancel at the last minute. if he likes you i'm sure he'll tell you if you do it that way
2006-08-11 23:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-11 23:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use him for whatever you can get out of him than drop him when your done or just be friends with benefits.
2006-08-11 23:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by bankshot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes u .then why he is indirectly tell u. he is not a true friend for u. he just flirting u through friends.
2006-08-11 23:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by jas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring him to a place where just you and him can talk alone, and tell him to be honest, and that he can trust you with his feelings.. if you like him back, tell him that. if you don't.. just say something like, i just think it might jeopordize our friendship..
good luck! xox- amanda
2006-08-11 23:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋