Many people treat me like I don't deserve 2 live. I have a good heart-very nice. I just graduated college 2 days ago. What did I do so wrong that everyone hates me? No one in my family loves me but me. No, I'm NOT trying 2 seek attention here, & no, this is NOT a suicidal threat. I need love. Why is it that every move I make & every breath I breathe I'm SO wrong? When will I ever be right? I haven't harmed anyone. I need someone to talk to.
2006-08-11 16:15:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well,
I know what your talking about, trust me. MY family is very much the same. except that they prefer to give all the love, attention, money, and faith to my female cousin. It doesn't make any since, cuz she does drugs, smokes, drinks, and sleeps with a different man every night. Now she is pregnant at 15, and my family insist on buying her a car and insurance on it. But I go to school and get a good education, and I really have no desire for drugs, etc. And I don't get **** for it. No gratitude. But I have come to realize that all you have to do is do just the best that you can and they will see the "light". They will realize how intelligent you are and come to realize the way they have been treating you. The point is that no matter when... you will have revenge upon them. No matter if it's tomorrow or fifty years from now. Just remember that there is a person that you can talk to. Email me at:
indiankid14@yahoo.com
One is glad to be of service!
2006-08-11 18:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by indiankid14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You weren't wrong by asking this question and you can't be doing everything wrong are you wouldn't have graduated COLLEGE...some people haven't even graduated high school!That's a big accomplishment and something to be very proud of. I'm proud of you just for having the courage to ask what you did! And yes, you DO have a purpose in this life. God has a purpose for all of us if we'll just seek Him and obey. You're a very beautiful person with a big heart who just wants to fit in somewhere. Maybe you just haven't been shown the love you need, although I'm sure there are people who do love you. Who could resist, with a heart of gold like yours? It sounds like you might would be good with children. There are alot of them that are starving for attention and who need mentors, which you would be WONDERFUL at! God has something in store for you, I can feel it. Trust in Him and He won't lead you wrong! Good Luck, Congratulations, and God Bless You!!!
2006-08-11 23:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by JW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR GRADUATION! What animal do you like best? I think you should get your OWN pet... That means greater responsibility,but believe me,they'll love you like what you ask for! Who knows they could be your bestfriend! I know my pets are with me when the whole world crashes on me. Animals can't talk, but you could try talking to them,it's NOT an act of being nuts,it's an act of pouring everything inside you to someone, then you'll feel very light. Believe me(again) I've been into so many problems,and trust in God and karma!
I forgot...
THERE'S NOTHING WRONG ABOUT YOU!!!
THE GREATEST MISTAKE IS ON THOSE PEOPLE!!!
Those who treat you badly should REALLY change!
2006-08-11 23:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by Onyx is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a purpose. Maybe you should consider moving to a different location and starting over and making new friends, a new job, a new place to live and be happy. My daughter died at the age of 22 from a rare cancer and she fought everyday just to have one more day here on earth.
2006-08-11 23:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by penny12899 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES a hundered times YES
go read the book "The Purpose Drive Life"
i was so lost a couple years back. my life was out of control and i had no where to turn to. I am Christian, but I wasn't very close to God at that time. After you read this book (whether you're religious or not) you'll soon find your purpose. Everyone has a purpose. Trust me on that.
Good luck & much love. :)
2006-08-11 23:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by grace is good for you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about what other people think. its about you and not them. you can't be what people expect you to be, be yourself. make yourself happy. unfortunately you can't choose your family but you can choose what you decide to do about it. you can let them get you down or you can take it with stride. its probably because you don't fit into thier little box of what they think you should be. be what you want to be and not what everyone else wants you to be. i read somewhere that if you listen to everyone else's idea of what you should be then you'll just be like everyone else!
congratulations on your graduation. you are so much ahead of most of the people in this world! maybe if you are so upset then you could get a pet. i know my pets have been there for me when i feel like everyone is against me. its easy sometimes to think that the world is set up against you. just do for others as you want them to do for you and believe in karma!
2006-08-11 23:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Candy it sounds to me like you are looking at things the wrong way. It's not that every one hates you, they are just missing out from getting your love and attention. You sound like you are a beautiful person in every way. If they don't want to know you they are losing big time.
2006-08-11 23:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by VL MAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulation on your graduation. You should be proud of all the work you've done.
Message me, and we can talk about the rest.
Take Care.
2006-08-11 23:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a purpose in life. You will figure it out soon. You need to find happiness in yourself.
2006-08-11 23:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something that IS right about yourself.
After you do so, repeat it.
Continue it until you feel better.
If you still feel like talking: "guppenstein" on myspace.
Wish you the best!
2006-08-11 23:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋