i need help i meet this girl and we been talking for a while now , really like her she likes me we both have feelings for each other , but theres is a problem she has a boyfriends and shes six months pregnant by her boyfriens !
i dont know what to do she really likes me and she tells me that i show her a different world and that she wants to be with me ! i need advice please !
2006-08-11 15:58:23 · 18 answers · asked by texascuz2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there is a huge difference between like and love,
bottom line she has baggage do you really want to be involved with someone who will forever have a connection with the baby's father?
my answer is stay away, you can learn to like many people
there are many fish in the sea
2006-08-11 16:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! RUN FAST!
Seriously, this is a Jerry Springer episode just waiting to happen. Unless you like a lot of drama in your life, I wouldn't pursue this. She is obviously very confused and unhappy, but she needs to figure out on her own what she wants. A person can NEVER think clearly about a new relationship while still in the old one.
And who's to say that she leaves that one, goes with you a while , then finds someone else while with you, as she is currently doing.
If you really have feelings and she does too, then wait on acting on those feelings until she is away from her current boyfriend. That is only fair to all three of you. And realize that this guy might insist on being in the baby's life anyhow and you will have to deal with him for the rest of the kid's life.
2006-08-11 23:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by jiminycricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You are heading for a disaster. Why do you want to go out with a girl who is pregnant with another man. She is playing games with you mentally. There is a lot of women out there that is nice that you could talk to. Be careful. Do not waste your time with her.
If you are really serious then you need to let the boyfriend know that he is being two timing by her. That girl do not have moral and you could not trust her. Wake up
2006-08-11 23:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her what she is doing... tell her that you really like her and want to be with her but your not just going to be the guy on the side. And If she wants to be with you then she needs to leave her boyfriend, BUT you also need to think ARE you going to be okay with raising a child A NEWBORN who isnt yours, a baby is tough cookies to handle....sleepless nights, crying, diapers and of course lots of love and hugs. Less time for you more time for baby and momma. a baby needs things that cost money, food, clothes, roof over head! and if you CANT provide for her these things than you should let it be.
2006-08-11 23:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by peachy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem young.
i vote not to get involved, but that's me. i have strick guidlines to what kind of person i want in my life, and dating a guy with a child is one i wouldn't do. just because i know i'm too young for that, and will end up helping with the kid, and if together long enough will form into a mother. i don't want that, not for another 10 yrs (until i'm 30) at least.
2006-08-11 23:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one, because she is pregnant her feelings and emotions are all ****ed up right now. Say you do go with her and 6 or so months after the baby pops out she decides she wants her baby's father back. (so common) Be careful, your playing with fire buddy; and family.
-A
2006-08-11 23:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kaplan Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i have been here before i'm telling you don't put your self through that because there alway's going to be a problem. be friend's in if you still have feel's for her then go out with her just be ready'ed for the drama!
2006-08-11 23:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by sheena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her.....all she wants is your funds to take care of her baby..i mean u gotta be a rich guy right....these kind of paople are like leaches and parasite.....b4 u know it she'll be long gone after she is done with u...........
believe that brother
2006-08-11 23:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by phenomkiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you enough she will leave the bf to be with you. Perhaps you should sit her down and tell her that you will take her seriously when you see that happen.
2006-08-11 23:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Littlefoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to get into a situation like that?
if you really like her than you should do some serious thinking and make your own decision.
Good Luck
2006-08-11 23:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by musiccrazy006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋