well i have this boyfriend and im 13 and he is 14 and i dotn know how far we should go cuz most of my friends have gone pretty far and i dont know what to do about it!!!! HELP ME PLEASE!!
2006-08-11 15:57:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
only make out
2006-08-11 16:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I know that this is your life to live and you may feel that you are old enough but think about it, do you really want to be like your friends so much that you are willing to be with this "boy" ? Is he really worth it to you? Do you think that he will honestly be there for you in a month? or even a week? If you are really curious than read up on the repercussions of this....they are really not all they are cracked up to be. Now you sound like a smart girl, just by questioning it is a good sign. I know that you don't have to listen to anything I say....but just think about this....Is he really worth taking a chance on your future for? Just be careful, if you do decide to.... make it protected....and be sure to never wear your heart on your sleeve.
2006-08-11 23:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lindy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with making out -- but the longer you do that, the harder it is to put on the brakes. How much temptation can you handle? Less than you think. For now, keep it light, and keep it in areas where you're not _too_ secluded. You may want the option to flee to where there are people around. Not because he'll try something, but because you might want to let him.
2006-08-11 23:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the 2 of u are still very young-sex at your age is just that-don't compromise yourself for anyone, especially a man, u may regret what u do afterwords. only u can decide "how far" u are comfortable going. whatever u decide pls think about the how u will feel was you've "done it"
2006-08-11 23:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing, and dateing, but you shouldnt go to far, you could have alot of slip ups, i have a steep sister who is i think 14 and shes going to have a baby in febuary, and a kinda cousin who is about 15 and should be having her baby anytime now!!!! so just be carefull and dont worry about what your friends have done, or how far theyve gone, im turning, 14 in about 5 days and some people i know have gone far, but it dosnt bother me, i dont want to take that kind of chance, so just be carefull, you can email me if you want at acharm101@aol.com but eather way just be carefull!!!!!
2006-08-11 23:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by Leesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do whatever you're comfortable with. You shouldn't let your boyfriend or any of your friends pressure you into doing something you might regret later.
2006-08-11 23:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i don't think you should do anything more than hugging and holding hands. you are too young to be thinking of going any further than that. making out can lead to other things and it will be harder to say no. you may wind up doing something you regret later. get to know each other more.
2006-08-11 23:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by crazedchipmunk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please, don't go any farther than making out!
You may regret it sooner or later!
2006-08-11 23:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋