I feel she can read me when I look directly into her eyes, it's so embarrasing!!
2006-08-11 15:45:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Think of sexual orientation as being on a naturally occuring continuum with 100% straight and 100% gay on the ends. Most people fall somewhere between those ends and it sounds like that may very well include you. That does not necessarily mean you are closer to gay or straight. It doesn't necessarily mean you are even adequately into bi to find the same sex attractive enough for a fulfilling relationship. But, until you explore yourself openly and honestly, you will not know. If you are straight, you will always wonder about yourself. If you are a lesbian, you will find life much more fulfilling once you accept yourself. In either case, you are better off knowing and understanding yourself more completely.
Anyway, talk to your friend next time that eye contact thing happens. (That doesn't mean you have to just blurt out that you want to kiss her, by the way.) She's probably got something going on as well. It might be different, maybe it's the same. Right now, your just being honest with yourself and questioning. That's healthy. Oh, and the desire... it's not apt to simply vanish because you want it to. If it did, then it wouldn't be desire.
2006-08-11 16:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction can have nothing to do with a persons sex. You feel close to your friend. Try talking it out, see how you both feel. Wanting to kiss someone of the same sex does not make you gay. It makes you curious and that is natural.
2006-08-11 23:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lorien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gay now by doing it with turds. Do the biblical thing and become a lesbian, and that'll set you straight and on the right path to the Lord. Go for it! Eat your best friend's P U S S Y already! Finger-lickin' good! You'll find God in a numerous amount of ways after having become a heterosexual lesbian. What's embarrasing is that you are stilll slutting yourself off to guys, munching up and down on the prick bastards. Remove yourself out of prostitution and escape into the safe haven of lesbianism and heterosexuality.
2006-08-11 23:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by mydocumentsmusicdownloads4 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh, just kiss the girl and get it over with. It might just be experimenting, and a lot of people do that. It doesn't make you gay, and if you were, so what?
2006-08-11 23:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by cmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to stop the desire is to kiss her. If she slaps the sh!t out of you afterward that will definately kill the desire to ever kiss her again.
2006-08-12 01:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by 0219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to kiss her, guess what? You're gay. That's the definition of gay: same sex attraction.
And there's nothing wrong with that. But, if you're gay, there's really no way you can stop yourself from feeling it. All you can do is control your behavior.
2006-08-11 22:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by extton 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be embarrassed,if she's looking directly into your eyes why dont you ask her how would she feel abt being kissed by you..dont generalize it by saying ...kissing another women,she may not be interested/feel anything towards that...some women do find the idea of kissing their g/friend (heterosexual) very acceptable...just to see what it would be like..good luck
2006-08-12 01:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by raven jack. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY STOP A NATURAL THING, A KISS NO MATTER HOW IT IS GIVEN IS A SUPREME SHOW OF LOVE AND TRUST, IT SAYS ALOT THAT YOU WANT TO KISS YOUR BEST FRIEND AND YOU KNOW THAT YOUR NOT GAY , YOU TRUST THEM AND WANT TO SHOW THEM HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU, SOMETIMES WORDS ARE NOT ENOUGH
2006-08-11 22:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may want to re-evaluate your sexuality. Or, just kiss her and get it over with. Your fascination may be subdued afterward.
2006-08-11 22:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sonny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her, she might be thinking the same thing.
2006-08-11 22:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by alis_n_1derland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋