what is the highest number that you would feel comfortable saying? And, as well, what is the highest number that they could respond with before you felt jealous?
2006-08-11 15:34:55 · 50 answers · asked by ? 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Haha! You should watch that episode of um, I think it was Gilmore Girls. The one where Rory's roommate (the blonde one) meets this guy she really likes and he asks her how many guys she's had sex with. It's hilarious. It was like 325 in the end 'cause she kept changing it. And he was like, "Holy Sh*t!" Because he'd only slept with 4 girls. Lol.
2006-08-11 15:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by olalla 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
5-10
2006-08-11 15:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more than 5
2006-08-11 15:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a game. It's your personal info. See if the person can handle the truth. Some people are (reasonably) cautious about infection. Also, how stable are you. If you can at all become in such a relationship with the person where intimacy can happen. Then truth can come out and be alright. Don't assume anything about your partner either.
2006-08-11 17:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Hymn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to figure that with men, they tend to exaggerate so you can clearly take off at least 10-15 girls off the original number they gave you. LOL they tend to count ANY action they recieved as the real deal.
And in women, They are all under counting! Women tend to count ONLY serious relationships, or maybe (if your lucky) they'll even throw in the semi serious relationships. Whose counting that cute bartender she met the other night. What was his name?
So all in all, you'll never know so why worry about it? Unless it's for health reason why bother asking?
"Ask me no questions, I'll tell you no lies"--Oliver Goldsmith
2006-08-11 15:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're better off going for the truth. If you are far enough into a relationship to talk about this kind of topic, then you two should at least respect each other enough to give a truthful answer.
It doesn't matter what you did in your past as long as you plan to have a great future.
2006-08-11 15:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have only been with ex husband. (soon to change) We had been together since I was 14 (not sexually until 17). He was 19 when we met and had slept with 7 different women prior to me, and he always let me know about that even during our short marriage! Now I wouldn't care how many a guy would have slept with prior to me I would always have him use condoms and treat everyone as if they had a disease!
2006-08-11 15:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by rockwithelmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh the truth? isn't that the point? If you're ashamed of how many people you have been with your girlfriend or boyfriend should know. I mean after all everything including sex defines a persons character
2006-08-11 15:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, none, because that's the honest truth. For him, it wouldn't be jealousy I'd be feeling if it was more than say, three, it would be worry....about his morals, his honesty, his integrity, his potential to pass on unwanted diseases, etc. Even ten wouldn't be horrible (because of the age group and the way men are taught to be in this country), but once he got into the teens, I'd be running for cover!
2006-08-11 16:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by medrecgal1973 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't answer it. The past is just that....the past and all I can see that question doing is causing major issues.
I have been asked that..I told him it was none of his business. I also let him know it never occured to me to ask him something like that because what was before me doesn't matter. If it does....that's too bad.
He fussed a bit but let it drop.
2006-08-11 15:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by sarhibar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋